for me the best is waiting..... the ten minutes before she knocks--or you knock. then the hoping she actually looks like her pic.and for me---if she hides her disgust when she sees what i look like

Good question, CaliGirl...

The best initial turn-on for me was with Sweet Sara in Seattle (unfortunately, now retired). Started with the most convincing sexy emails when we were setting up the time together. I actually believed this girl was hungry for me. When she opened the door to her apartment, she smiled while looking me dead in the eye, put her arms around me, pressed her body against mine and we stood there, DFKing and caressing for the first five minutes. That loving in the entryway was worth the price of admission and I knew I was in for a stellar session... she didn't let me down. I believe Sara loved her clients from the moment they walked in the door. Few women can pull that off. I think maybe a provider has to love the sex more than the money to even approximate that kind of opening... or be the proverbial Academy Award worthy actress.  

dawctor

Forget the wine....wear something HOT that will show off enough to make us want to jump all over you and treat you like a queen!  silk bra, short shorts, panties, tight tops, etc.  MEN ARE VISUAL!!! Hope that helps.

i love seeing a nice pair of shapely legs when I first see a provider.  Guess I'm a leg man.  Love those short skirts.  Unlike one of the previous posters, however, I DO NOT like any perfume on a provider.  For some reason, my wife is not very fond of other women's scents...

I love it when the door opens up and the person you are seing is wearing something really sexy- like a short skirt with nylons. Hope Taylor was great at this.  She would always have something really hot on and then kind of seduce you as you were talking on the couch. I'm always a little bit disappointed if the person is just wearing some regular cloths like jeans.

To me it depends on the lady.  Normally though, I have to say it's her face and hair.  I couldn't care less (within certain limits) about breast size.  But pretty hair and a nice smile will do more for me than anything.  Being greeted with a nice hug and kiss doesn't hurt either.

Re:Whats the biggest turn-on when you first see a provider?????

Personally, I am just happy to see a provider that looks like, or better, than her pictures. That is getting to be more and more rare each day. I also love to see a provider with a great body in lingerie. I like to see her take it off, all the time I am wondering exactly what she looks like under them. The details.
    the biggest turn on I ever had, was when i went to a lower priced provider on a spur of the moment thing. When she got undressed, she looked much better than anticipated. Her face, body(most of all her ass), were far better than expected, as was her performance.