As with many things in life there are ebbs and flow.  At first this hobby can be quite interesting as all of these beautiful women are just a phone call or message away.  What more can a man ever ask for, I guess that it would be free or at least cheaper.  Sometimes when things come to easily they do not seem so important or valuable.  Too much of a good thing also tends to make it seem normal or not that special.

At first I could not get enough.  I would set up a couple of appointments a week, even sometimes scheduling two on the same day, one in the afternoon and one in the late evening.  As the years went on, the fun and excitment waned a bit and I became much more selective in who I wanted to see.  

A few years further down the road and I still had great anticipation of setting and going to an appointment, but the frequency had fallen way off, sometime once a month or less.  After the appointment, I would question was that really worth it and started thinking of all of the other things I could have done with the money.  Instead of basking in the glow of a wonder moment, I felt let down or saddened.

I still partake in the hobby, but at much reduced rate and not because of the expenditure of money.  I can still throw money away with the best of them on meaningless things. I tried the multi-hour session thinking that this might satisfy me as it could provide addtional interaction above the beyond just the sex.  The trouble with those long appointments is the increased cost for only a marginally better memory.

I still love the convenience of this hobby and the ability to have sex virtually on demand.  I do not think that I am well suited for dating and a prolonged chase to get to the promised land.  This hobby still is probably the best value if the only criteria is dollars spent for each sex act, compared to dating, having a mistress, living together or marriage.

I also think that this hobby works well for those that are in a committed relationship with a woman.  For many of these men additional sex or any sex is the primary factor for partaking.  They get all of the social interaction with a woman that they want or can handle at home.  Us single guys aometimes are looking for more from an appointment.  Yes, we want the sex but we are also attempting to get some nonsexual female companionship, a pseudo girlfriend.  This is where the hobby falls short and has tricked me several times.  

Decide why you are in this hobby, what are your needs and goals and then make a decision to quit or continue and at what frequency.  When it is no longer fun it is time to go.  If you do not know why you partake, it is time to go.  If you question the expenditure of money, it is time to leave.

Re:Tired of hobbying....

I am going to receive my aarp card in about six weeks and I too am getting tired of the hobby.  It just does not seem to satisfy me in the ways I had hoped it would.  I have come to the realization that the hobby solves some needs and yet creates a desire for other things that our providers cannot give.  I guess I want more than just the physical part.  I am looking for something exciting,new a little more intimate.  Yes, you can get that here but it is very short lived,very transparent and extremely rare.  Good luck to your search.

Re:Tired of hobbying....

I put up a post similar to this one about a year ago. I have not been to a provider since then. There was just no more fun in the hunt for that next great provider that made you feel like a million bucks and you had no regrets after the act. Far to often, I regreted my decision about 1 minute after leaving a provider. It was rare that I left with a smle on my face and was still happy about the experience some time later. Also, I just didn't have the urges that I once did. My birthday is cumming up and I have had some mild urges.Unfortunately, I have not seen much in the reviews that draws me to any particular provider. I am very picky and want this first time in a year to be perfect. I have had a 3some. But, it was so bad, that I have been trying to forget it. I have thought about trying another to see if that spark comes back.

I am no where near AARP age (33), but I am definitely less enthusiastic about the hobby lately. There are a few ladies that
I would still like to see here in SD,but for the most part I am happy just to be an occasional poster. I think the high end of the experience is still very enjoyable, the low end is more common and the number of providers in it for a quick buck has increased.