Tantra is usually an overpriced massage by an older woman with hairy airpits that doesn't believe in wearing deoderant. Hardly makes up for the half hearted breathing lessons they give you. At least that's the experience I've had with the 3 tantra providers I've seen. I was initially intrigued with the idea of tantra, but now I see it for the scam it is and I've since given up seeing tantra providers and am now focusing on regular massage providers instead. So save your money and go see Rhonda or one of the other FBSM girls out there.