Where's a good swinger board? My wife will be out of town and would love to play with some girlies for mutual satisfaction...

Try http://www.sexuality.org/mgswing.html as a place to start.  Where are you going?  I may be able to provide you with specific club recommendations.  Also, check out yahoo clubs - there are lots of swinger clubs there.

I'm not going anywhere. I'm just a married male in San Diego whose cat will be away...

Sdsmat:

Most swinger venues of any quality are B.Y.O.B.  (Bring your own babe.)  Most husbands figure reasonably "why should I share my SO with you if you're not bringing anything to the party?)  Yes, there are exceptions.  The few guys that just get off seeing their wives banged by another guy.  And there are swing clubs that allow single men.  But you will usually find a very high ratio of men/women there.  Also usually not the best quality either.  There is a club in Temecula I think it is, that allows a limited number of single guys that is/was pretty good.  Not sure if it is still operating.  The guy that ran the place died.
My best advice to you is to find a gal willing to go with you as your partner and is willing to participate.  Maybe one of the ladies on this board would be willing?  

I hope that answers your question.  Now if only I could get an answer to my query re LE.  Or must I be part of a clique to get answers on here??

Have fun, Sailer

I love to go to swinger parties and the best ones here in sd do require that you bring a lady... Thads is alot of fun and it is in the fallbrook/valley center area.(www.thads.com) The one down town allows single men and there are alot of BBW's Seeking gang bangs there (Maybe other ladies too but I haven't seen any on the night I went).Downtown was Fun to watch but I haven't participated yet with any one but the guy I came with. There is another club called cb's but I believe you need to be sponsored by someone as it has taken over a month for me to get an invitation and I only got it from people who have been there reeatedly if you have more questions after visiting the site e-mail me at [email protected]
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