Recently I was at a local strip club and got to talking with one of the girls about meeting up outside of the club after receiving the highest mileage lap dances of my life. I will not name the club, the girl, or what happened during the lap dance becuase I do not want LE to come down on the place. Anyway, I got her number and we spoke a few times, but after several calls trying to get her to meet me I realized that she was scamming me trying to get me into the club and really wasn't interested in hooking up outside of the club. I was really intrigued initially becuase she was VERY YOUNG and HOT..a combination that you don't find in most San Diego providers. I'm just curious if anyone has been sucessful in hooking up with girls outside of the clubs.

i havn't gone to any clubs since i moves to SD but when i lived in SF there were alot of girls from the clubs open to meeting outside the club.
meet a guy in SD that had a interesting technique though. he would get dressed up and put a small bud of pot in his shirts front pocket. while getting a dance the girls would smell the pot and that would strike up the conversation  that he led to the closing line of "well, when do you get off? lets got back to my place and smoke this."  not beign a pot smoker i never tried it but i found the story funny...

I've hooked up with girls at clubs before.......To tell you the truth a couple of them actually aproached me. In any case if your'e intrested or want some info pm me.  I would post here but with LE i would just fuck things up.

is so naive about this.  As you told NiceatHeart,
they are just trying to get your $$$$$$$.  I have actually known of a couple who saw guys outside of clubs, and I got together with one all of ONCE, but it is EXTREMEY RARE, especially in San Diego, and if a dancer is, as you put it, young and hot, she makes enough money dancing without having to give it up, so she is going to work you to keep you coming in the club to see her.  That is why she talked to you on the phone. I know this from personal experience, and, once I found the "fantasies" on TER, I stopped wasting my time with clubs.  You would have to be way rich to get a girl from a club to give you any mileage outside of one.

And here I thought I was lucky with the one I got together with...I guess he is the man!  Anyway, Mr. Fisher, I am curious what club you went to, to see if it was the same one I got strung along at.  PM me and let me know.

I've hooked up once with a totally young hottie from a club. I just came at her honestly and said that I had a live-in girlfriend but was looking for some entertainment on the side. I said I would be happy to spoil her with gifts or whatever. She said she wasn't into getting paid and that maybe we could just hang out. After a few calls, I ended up going over to her apt to watch tv.  We ended up banging and she never asked for a thing. Go Figure!

Spacey, I realize that they just want my money....and I don't mind parting with it. I had never tried hooking up at a club before becuase of the exact reason you stated...they make enough money without having to give it up. But when I say high mileage lap dance I mean high mileage...enough for me to comclude that this girl WOULD give it up outside of the club. Unfortunately I was mistaken...or at least got disgusted enough with her ploy not to pursue her any further.

I used to live in Houston (which has very high mileage, high quality clubs) and I met several girls outside the club.  Basically I would get to know them over the course of several visits and then if there seemed to be any spark I would tell them I would be happy to cover what they would make on an average day if they would meet me somewhere to ........[insert clever line here]  This way they don't really feel like they are getting paid to do "it" since you're just covering what they would have made at the club (it's all about perceptions).  
    I know some might say why not just get a provider and cut to the chase for about the same amount?  And they might be right except I met some girls in these clubs that were REALLY hot and it was definitely very cool to be able to be with them instead of just looking at them.
    My take on it is that most of them wouldn't do it without the money but they won't do it just for the money either.  There has to be some kind of connection as well.
    This worked for me for several different girls over a few years and in fact a few of them agreed to bring friends along for threesomes once they knew they could trust me.
    The first time this worked for me I wasn't even trying a "plan" so much as it just evolved.  Only in hindsight did I figure out what worked and was able to use it several more times.  I haven't tried it in San Diego because the clubs seem so lame compared to Houston that I haven't visited them much.  Maybe it's time to give it a try though....

Very high mileage dancer, way hot, and very good at stringing customers out.  Joke is on us, huh?  I met with one girl once who was not one of the hottest girls in the club, but she was really nice and real and we had a lot in common. I drove her home one night and she did my astrological chart, and we talked a couple more times on the phone, but then she moved out of town unexpectedly before we could get together again.  It can happen, but it is rare.  If you go, just be real, and you may get a taker every now and then.