Offer a multi-hour date with overnight as optional. Not too many people are comfortable with sleeping overnight with a complete stranger.

You are more likely to find what you are looking for..

(Also, hope you won't be offended by this, but you might want to change your TER 'handle'. It definitely would repulse most women.)

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someone I hadn't seen before. What if you don't hit it off or shes not your type? What if your not her type and shes not giving it a 100%. Too many variables. Sedonas idea of a multihour date that COULD turn inta an overnight makes sense.
As far as a suggestion, really hard not knowing what your likes and dislikes are other than a GFE. Young, mature, skinny, fat, white, black, implants etc....