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What is it with so many providers failing to reply to requests for appointments?
Are they afraid you may be LE?
Are they THAT busy?
Are they snobs?
Are they Prima Donnas?
Is it beneath them to respond?
Is it because they just can't say NO?
Failure to preform is one thing, but failure to provide a reply is a courtesy they need to learn!
If they don't like the references, just say so!
Give whatever answer suits them, but for God's sake, give a reply!!!

NYSt8tofMind428 reads

She replies to me!  lol

Posted By: Rockynutz
What is it with so many providers failing to reply to requests for appointments?  
 Are they afraid you may be LE?  
 Are they THAT busy?  
 Are they snobs?  
 Are they Prima Donnas?  
 Is it beneath them to respond?  
 Is it because they just can't say NO?  
 Failure to preform is one thing, but failure to provide a reply is a courtesy they need to learn!  
 If they don't like the references, just say so!  
 Give whatever answer suits them, but for God's sake, give a reply!!!

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Rockynutz463 reads

So do 98 percent of the agencies, but it is only about 20 percent of the independents
from City Vibes, Back Page, TER PM's.  If you have a steady relationship, I do not doubt
that you get prompt replies.

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NYSt8tofMind379 reads

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zgjsmhdgk557 reads

I have been fortunate enough to not have any "no replies" thus far. Perhaps it's because I only deal with TER and one other site.

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hiddenhills365 reads

I don't worry about, and I certainly don't take it personally. I  just move on. However, I may circle back later in time and try again.  

Posted By: Rockynutz
What is it with so many providers failing to reply to requests for appointments?  
 Are they afraid you may be LE?  
 Are they THAT busy?  
 Are they snobs?  
 Are they Prima Donnas?  
 Is it beneath them to respond?  
 Is it because they just can't say NO?  
 Failure to preform is one thing, but failure to provide a reply is a courtesy they need to learn!  
 If they don't like the references, just say so!  
 Give whatever answer suits them, but for God's sake, give a reply!!!

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Todd Kavonic361 reads

A gal, who I personally met at an M&G, failed to return my calls. Then a low volume provider in Vegas did not get back to me, but it's Vegas so connect the dots :-) That's it.

My mantra is two emails, two texts or two phone calls and both of us walk with no ill will if no contact.

It's the provider's body and headspace. She can choose what she wants to do. Many ladies do not like saying "no"

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Rockynutz301 reads

I don't have a nervous breakdown over it, but I still think it is a little rude.
When 80 or 90 percent do not reply, that is a bit much in my book.
It takes quite a bit of wasted time and delays making a date by a number of days.

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Todd Kavonic444 reads

No doubt, that's f'ed up. I have no idea what happens on female back channel. Probably just a convo error. Press forward, I am sure there are plenty of ladies that want to see you.

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JennyBlu450 reads

I am learning that women all have outside lives, so if they do not want to go on a date, they simply don't respond.  I try to tell everyone to give me a yes or no, so I can find the guy another date.

I am not sure what agencies you use, but a legitimate one will always respond, and if they don't hear from your first choice, there are always back ups.  ^_^

~jenny

Related Link: "Everybody has a secret world inside of them" -Neil Gaiman

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Rockynutz319 reads

Jenny my dear, the agencies respond 98 percent of the time.  It's the independent
girls who are the problem.  My complaint is that I get all excited at the prospect
of meating a sexy babe and then I can't even get a reply.  High school was better than that.

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JennyBlu400 reads

What's worse than a no reply is a no show!  Happens all the time in Vegas.  I just don't understand these girls... and poor guys....

...high school was better?!  Oh really...  even college sucked for me.  I was around your neck of the woods.  Good ol' UCSD... Revellian... LOL!

Better luck next time

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BridgetSoCa410 reads

I just joined TER and only a basic member, I posted the other day for the first time, I tried to respond to messages sent via TER, however, basic members cannot.  I do however respond via my site link, or email.. until I learn how to use TER and become a full member ... check my ad gentlemen would love to  meet you xoxo  Bridget

Related Link: http://bridgettesummers.callgirlfiles.com

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MSON123274 reads

I don't know but it has caused me to go UTR and only see people I have seen before. It has almost been a year since I have seen a lady i have not seen before. not that I have not tried.. These type of people give the hobby a bad name.

Posted By: Rockynutz
What is it with so many providers failing to reply to requests for appointments?  
 Are they afraid you may be LE?  
 Are they THAT busy?  
 Are they snobs?  
 Are they Prima Donnas?  
 Is it beneath them to respond?  
 Is it because they just can't say NO?  
 Failure to preform is one thing, but failure to provide a reply is a courtesy they need to learn!  
 If they don't like the references, just say so!  
 Give whatever answer suits them, but for God's sake, give a reply!!!

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Gypseywoman338 reads

Maybe it's your approach. Initial contact defines a person more than one might think. I delete one-liners (rude), send them to my P411 profile if they are vague or start a friendship if they tell me who they are and what they are interested in.  

If you are a TER member/reviewer say so up front. Or give her a reference. If she still doesn't respond it's probably to your advantage because why would you want to see someone who treats you like that anyway?

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