I am curious about 3 somes and what it is that men expect from this type of an encounter? Let me explain why I am asking this...as some of you may know I do doubles with my friend Ana. When I asked a client if he enjoyed our encounter his comment was " you two are the best" so I asked him what the difference was between his other encounters and our time spent together and he responded that we ( Ana and I ) actually get into it with eachother. He explain to me that other 3 somes that he had been involved with the girls just played with him and did not touch eachother.
With this said .........I get an e-mail from a client who has been wanting to set up time with Ana and I for well over 4 mths. I must let you know that he has been my client for about 6mths or more. We finally have this long awaited appt. we had a great time at least I thought we did. And I get an e-mail from him saying that he felt like the 3rd wheel, that if he would have left the room we would have not noticed. My response to him was, that even though this was a fantasy maybe he is not the type of person who likes to share his partner? Sometimes fantasies are not always as they seem in our imagination. As far as I recall Ana and I did not do anything different.......cowgirl, anal, mission, oral( lots of it), toys everything we love to do. here is a link of our reviews together:
http://theeroticreview.com/link/link.asp?RSID=TER19325&ID=15547

I would like your input on what it is that men expect from a 3 some session for my own knowledge. Or should I ask before every session what it is they want so that we make sure to accomidate the client. However to me this would be like performing and not letting the passion and fun take its own course?  
Thank you for your input.......
Kisses & Licks..........
Mara of San Diego

Oh My! There had to be something different from the norm (as you believe it to be). Can't please everyone all the time, as I understand you want to be able to do. Rightly or wrongly, I doubt he really wanted to convey his troubled feelings to you but, it was, like it or not, his opinion.

Since you already know the guy, you may want to consider it a fluke and toss it or delve into the possiblity that there may have really been something different from what you believe to be the norm. One thing is for sure, we're all human. I doubt you will find a better method than your own, if you search for the answers from within. We can all jump into denial, especially when we hear things we don't like hearing.

I have met with both you and Anna separately (Aye Carumba!)and for the life of me, I can't figure out how the guy could walk away feeling that way (with the both of you, I'm surprised he was able to walk at all). See what happens when you give a guy a break and allow him to get all that rest! You probably just really did'nt want to tear his ass up like you both are capable of doing.

I'm not as much in to the girl-girl thing but thats OK too.  I keep thinking of all the combinations with me and 2 girls especially you and Anna (who I saw a couple of times last year).
You're making me hot just thinking about it!!!

I'd say that it's just about:

"you can't please all the people all the time..."

From your very good reviews, it shows that you take pride in your work and want to leave the guy walking out very pleased.

In a 3 way, some guys will want to watch and others want to be the center of attention.
It's obivious that the guy that the one client wanted to be the King of the session and all attention focused on him.

I would suggest that the next time, ask what expectations the guy has ahead of time. Everyone has different expectations and tastes. Many guys are shy to tell a person up front what they expect and of course YOU are expected to be the mind reader....

The best threesomes I've experienced are when all three partners take turns being the center of attention for the other two. The worst are when two of the three pair up...so one person is left out watching...but then there are those that simply want to watch...but that's not for me...I like to threeway switch!



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I feel if you let the flow go and every one will have fun. but some people want to be the center of attention.I feel that when its to planed out it wont feel natural and as good. And at those points when the girls go at it. Use it to rest for more fun. But as I told you I like to watch and sitting in the corner with myself would of be just fine.


               The Guru

Hi, Mara... I think the best way to ensure the client's satisfaction is to ask what he prefers, letting him know that you and Ana can enjoy each other as well as him. I can understand why someone may feel left out if the two ladies are pleasuring each other to his exclusion. But others most definitely get off by watching the ladies go at it. I have experienced a 3-way once and loved watching the two ladies when I backed off a few times to catch my breath. But they both made sure I didn't sit on the sidelines for long. I bet you and Ana put on quite a show! I couldn't imagine being disappointed. And I'd never book a session with two ladies if they didn't have fun with each other.

dawctor

I have had the wonderful experience of being with two very lovely ladies who enjoy each other's company and have allowed me to be present for some very passionate moments.  We take turns where each of us, for a while, is the center of attention.  (Obviously we need more than an hour for these sessions.)  I have never felt left out, nor have I ever felt relegated to the status of being a on-looker.  I wouldn't change anything; nor have I found anything more enjoyable than having a pretty woman assist me in bring pleasure to a lovely friend or being the center of their undivided attention.  It just doesn't get any better.  From what I have read, you and Anna behave in the same manner as my friends and I.  I wouldn't change a thing, except to remember that (as said before) you can't please everybody.  Don't mess with sucess!  (My friends don't advertise and only work by referal from existing clients.)  Although I am a frequeant reader I have no reviews to support my opinons--only great memories. Least anyone reading this (LE?) come to an erroneous conclusion, the forgoing is only a fantasy.

Personally I don't think there's a single answer about how "guys" like it. Just the same I don't think there's a single answer about how "gals" like it either.

People are different and to complicate matters further some people don't really know what they want until they have to make a final decision (and possibly not even then.)

In interactions between two people this gets really complicated and the only hope is communication. I think it's a pretty standard fantasy of both men and women that it would be nice if our partner could read our minds and do exactly what we want exactly when we want it but that just isn't likely.  

The communication doesn't need to all be verbal by the way, there's plenty of other signs to read.

I notice some women like other ladies as well as men and some do not. There's even some ladies in this business who don't like men at all but find it easy to fake their way to making money. There simply isn't one answer that suits everyone.

There are some interesting twists to this, or a similiar, story posted by H.C.B. which you've just got to read. Possibly a totally different scenario but, another sides point of view.