Did you give her your "real" screening info? Just busing your balls U Dog.
I have tried on and off to arrange an appointment with this lady since early December. Things just never worked out schedule wise, and she would not make appointments beyond the present day, disallowing any potential to arrange an appointment for another day.
We finally reconnected by phone last week and she decided to schedule me for this past Saturday. She asked me to call her on Friday to confirm. When I did she informed me she had to go to LA (funeral) and would not be back till Sunday night. Checking against our schedules we decided on Wednesday (yesterday) afternoon. When I called her yesterday at noon to confirm, she informed me that she had just started her monthly situation and she was feeling lousy. Interesting that she posted a $200 outcall special yesterday around noon on this board. Anyways she went on and on about how bad she felt and insisted that we meet this afternoon (Thursday) at a resteraunt in MV for a drink. She insisted that it was FOR SURE and I did not need to call today to confirm. Low and behold she blew me off without a phone call or returning my two messages I left once she was late.
Now, I understand the difference between being busy, something coming up etc. vs. having the decency and intelligence to conduct oneself in a professional and honorable manner. My warning to you all is that this girl is a complete flake, is not intelligent enough to remember what she is doing from one day to the next and does not have the decency or character to make a phone call when she can not make an appointment.
Stick with the ones you know aren't flakes. There's a zillion of 'em.
(sorry it happened)
Was fooled. She has decent reviews on TER (none recent) and posts herself on this discussion board. Couple that with the pictures and I thought I had an A on my homework assignment. Live and learn, huh?
should be to give her at least 48 hrs to come up with an apology and explanation; then maybe first pick at prime time appt slot, and, hopefully, a serious discount (serious).
Well, sounds like you did your homework then and it should have worked out. I presumed, by the tone I perceived in your post that you were warning them not to go there, as she IS a flake(more like a ROB), not just BEING flakey. Make sense?
Either way, I don't want Kali or anybody to think I was slammin' her; not at all - but rather stay within a confined group of tried and true ladies, and the bad experiences will be greatly reduced if not eliminated. This 'hobby' is about PLEASANT experiences.
Thanks for the kind words. I had set my sights on this lady because of various paramenters that fit my selective criteria. I am willing to consider your paramenters of 48 hrs with an apology and explanation, but this adventure with Kali has gone on for such a long time, I personally doubt her sincerity and professionalism. The label of FLAKE goes with months of on and off again communications, with more than the average of excuses. My error was thinking that she was / is a legit provider within the scope of SD criterian.
So, if she decided she didn't want to see you, for whatever reason - you said or did something that spooked her, then that might be it. And it's hard to come up with something to say at that point.
It's not that she told hime she didn't want to see him, rather she implied or agreed to see him, and THEN blew him off. Yet sh would continue to agree.
This "come close, go away" game is what is bull. I've had similar experiences with a couple local ladies.
If you don't want to see someone, don't AGREE to see them, then have "something" happen at the last minute.
If you don't feel comfortable telling someone you don't want to see them, you can alwasy make an excuse when they ask to see you, but it's total BS to agree to a date, then blow them off.
I have to say the dog did us a service by letting others know what happened.
Some people may connect with her and have a great time, yet others will try and get the blow off-and these people will realize tht they should probably just move on.
but what I meant is that if she agreed to see him, then later found a reason why she didn't want to see him, and it spooked her and she didn't even so much as respond.
Sorry, Dude. I didn't have that experience with her at all.
Not sure what's going on in her life these days (I am given to understand that the life associated with her line of work can be overwhelming), but the impression I got of her back in December was one of intelligence, sweetness and insightfulness.
Sorry it happened, too.
Yoda
My communications began with Kali in December. Strictly by phone. She was always busy, yet expressed interest in seeing me. Believe me, I can take a hint and don't believe in pursuing a provider if it is evident she is not interested. The funny and trickiest part of all of our conversations during December and January is that she refused to schedule anything in advance. So how do I meet you if you will not make the effort to schedule an appointment for tomorrow, the next day etc.? What Kali did to me the past week is completely out of line and excludes her from myself and my friends as a legit provider. Leading a person on, and saying an actual meeting place and time (Joe's Crab Shack, Mission Valley, 2:30) right Kali? and just blowing that off without a phonecall is unforgiveable. You are a bad person. This whole field / forum is about people making people feel good / better about themselves. Not even making a simple phonecall tells me everything about you. Not intelligent enough to remember one day to the next and not classy enough to be a professional. Go away, you do not belong in this town!
Sounds like you're determined to be mad, there, Dog. Might as well move on...better luck next time.
Dear UDOGU, do you really want to see the girl in the picture???
Go to a local favorite coffee shop, or your favorite bookstore, or a good restaurant. Ask the girl behind the counter for a date, with a cool and calming look! You will be surprised how many times you could score!
If it makes you feel any better, she pulled the same crap on me, stating her purse was stolen right after she announced one of her "TER Specials". I was upset but, it is the business. I just won't call her again.
Well it seems that alot of you are experiencing the same problem with me but i asure you all that i am not a flake, i am just very busy (i have school, i babysit for my sister and do this) and have been having a not so good year(aside from being healthy and alive nothing at all has been going my way), and as far as udogu goes we more than took care of the situation=)(i hope you had as much fun as i did.) Well to those i have offened in any way shape or form or to anyone that felt like their time was wasted I AM SORRY!!! XOXO Kali
She has no concept of professionalism. She's just a young thing who likes sex, and if you happen to be around with $250 in your pocket and ready to service her when SHE's in the mood, she'll give you a good time (as judging from her reviews). But to expect her to make a commitment to accommodate YOUR schedule, it just won't happen - she might rather go to the mall and buy shoes instead.
Personally, after 4 days of trying, with sporadically returned calls and me being jerked around, I gave up and stopped trying. No sex, no matter how good, is worth being taken for granted for.
I'm surprised that she would do such a thing. I used to call and chat with her online frequently. I must note that she seems to have disappeared in the last month or two; no chatting nor emails.
My only guess is that she is going through hard times or she suspected something bad.
Happy Ending! Believe it or not I called Kali this afternoon, if for no other reason to get some kind of apology. Well to make a boring story short, she apologized, agreed to get a room right away and see me on short notice. She called me a half hour later with the room info, and we hooked up. We "kissed and made up" and I had a very, very, very good experience. Now that she knows me, I hope that we can get together regularly without the afore mentioned hassles of the past.
I had to share this with you all! Life's a trip huh? What a difference a day makes. I know one thing, I'll go to sleep with a grin on my face tonight!
All I can say is wow.
Glad to hear it, UDOGU. Because I had a fantastic time with Kali and think she's a sweetheart. I'm glad you got things worked out with her, and I applaud you for making the record straight. That's a touch of class that we could all use as an example.
Did you give her your "real" screening info? Just busing your balls U Dog.
Bex, I know it was a typo, but it is too good of one to pass up...
don't you "bus" balls already? 
Peace, sweetie.
That has got to feel so absolutely wonderful!!
Bexy, you're great!!
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