Just look at his reviews. I think the answer will be obvious.  He obviously enjoys story telling and all his experiences are average at best. Maybe it's just the SF ladies. Who knows, Like the Olympics-throw out the top and bottom scores.

What it comes down to is that you got a not so great review and you have to deal with it or learn from it.  Whether or not you deserve the the 3 is not up to me to decide.  All you can do is learn from it and don't make the same mistakes you made with him.  If you're going to be in this business you should to treat these gentleman the way you want to be treated.  I noticed that you said you "tried your hardest", he said the same thing too.  But it was obvious to him that you didn't want to be there which is what gave you your 3.  I sometimes find myself in situations that I quickly want to get out of too but that doesn't mean I'm going to pull a rush job on the guy.  You might not think you treated him bad because you didn't express it verbally, but people can tell when they aren't wanted.  How would you feel if someone did the same to you?  It's not a nice feeling.  I'm not trying to bash you or upset you just trying to give you some friendly advice.  I can tell you haven't been at this a while, you have alot of reviews to come if you're going to stick to this.  Are you going to come on the discussion board and vent everytime you get a bad review or someone says something negative about you?  What really matters is that your getting what you want out of this and you're paying your bills, to 1 guy that doesn't like you there are 100 more that do.  Think about that and don't get hung up on reviews.

remember its his opinion and for him it was bearly worth the effort. for other that may not be the case.

No, its not fair.  Its also misleading, because many guys will not even read the review if it is that low.  

When I see a provider with one or two bad reviews and a bunch of good ones, I read the bad ones to see if the guy is some sort of crank, and try and think how I would react in that situation.  

Even the great providers get a couple of reviews that are off-the-wall, so try to take it in stride, even if it isn't fair.

Sadly, we are all of us at one time or another in our lives subjected to unwarranted and undeserved slings and arrows, especially when in business and offering a service.  However, Do Not Give Up!  Never Give Up! Your other reviews are very positive.  You Will Survive This Temporary Setback!  Many wishes for better days ahead.

This guy failed to mention that HE rushed me over there after calling some other girl, he wanted to see me instead so he wanted me to get there before her. He also failed to mention how he cried the whole time about having to get up early and being jet-lagged. Who's time and effort was really wasted. My point is if you're gonna tell the story tell it all don't be bias....

Phil55 PM'd me prior to his trip to SD, looking for recommendations. I told him that Tori, Jai, and Lauren Legends (when in SD) are pretty much can't miss. Too bad for him and Dallas that he did not hook up with one of them. I don't think I would be real happy with a covered HJ with no finish unless that was what I was expecting going in, which is highly unlikely. All that being said, I'm sure that the 'Service' that he spoke of would not have been much better.

NSF

reviews are our opinions, if he thought it was barely worth the effort then to him, it was.

most of us can look at a lady's reviews and make up our own minds, we know that there are days it doesn't work out, or people don't click, and we make up our own minds.

And if there's someone that can't do that then I would think you are better off not meeting them in the first place.

Since I wss the customer Dallas is referring to, perhaps it would be instructive to all concerned to give my perspective of the appointment.  First I do want to say that I have to give Dallas credit for caring enough about her business to put this on the Discussion Board. First, anyone sho reads my reviews knows I've yet to ding any provider. I've always been fair. Dallas did try hard but I could tell from the vibe I was getting that she wanted to get out of there in a hurry.  Yes, I told her (but did not whine) that I had to get up early, but I did not ask for some quick-release HJ. Things didn't go 'dull', I just knew it wasn't going to happen under the circumstances. It's up to her to find out what her customers want if she wants a good review. Plus there is some bad karma for both of us.  I cancelled out on someone else to see her and she was cussing out some other customer for stiffing two of her friends.  
Dallas, you were later than you said you were going to be originally, you did rush me, you didn't want me to touch you (you did mish reluctantly, and don't BS, I could tell) and you wanted a quick finish.  Hence the harsh review. Learn from it.

Phil gave plenty of reasons to back up his opinion -- as I read the review, I could feel his pain, and I knew exactly the feeling that he was getting.  

Dallas, you're the pro, it's your job to make sure things go well for us boys.  When they don't -- well, you failed in your job.

The guy said lots of great things about you, your appearance, your friendliness, your trying to make things good for him.  But you got distracted by the cellphone.  Note to everyone, turn off the phone.  Once you take even one call, the client knows your mind is somewhere else.  Then the illusion is shattered.  You have voice mail.  It can wait an hour.  You will find that a huge peeve for clients is to have to wait while a provider takes a business phone call.  It's kind of like you going on a date with a guy and he ogles at other girls tits for the whole night.  You know you don't have his attention and it's humiliating.