Although I don't engage in full service activities, I have been with men who were so endowed, they tore my pretty pink hole.  It hurt to walk, pee and sit...for about a week.  If it's going to hurt the woman, she should be allowed to back out of the session...albeit w/o pay!  I don't believe a woman should be paid for just showing up.

I can't imagine that in today's world, a woman would refuse a dark dick!

I have a very true story to tell. I while back I answered an add looking for men 10" or more. Well I tried to cheat and answered the claiming that was the case. The girl flat out told me that "she measures". Me thinking that with good love making skills would make overlook the half inch shortage. What a suprise she  got me hard then took out a fabric measuring tape and checked me. She looked at me and said that she said 10" and meant it. So she nicely asked me to leave. I felt so bad that nite. With such high expectaions. And she was beautiful.

Also I have seen some ladies and providers will put their hands up  so that I cannot make full penitration but never have been told "your not going to stick that in me".

You must be thick.

Also I am white.

Each has his or her own cup of tea.
There are some that don't want to see guys too young, too fat, too old, etc.
It might be nice to know ahead of time, if you were blessed with extra special gifts.
Some have delicate flowers that can't handle so much equipment. But I always give it a girl scout try.
Just my 2 cents...
But if it's too large... you may have to look for the right fit.

Re:For the ladies..... A few topics raised on the other boards

An now for a little humor at my expense. I was at an AMP several years ago. After the session, the woman said to me, "Now that is my size dick.....not like one of those big ones" And yes you guessed it, I am white

I haven't heard of to much racisim or ill treatment in our hobby because of a persons skin color but I do know it exist.
Yes I agree a provider reserves the right to provide service or not.
I know a lot of the girls here in SD have sent me private meesages on the subject, most say skin color isn't a problem and penis size does matter, to big can be painful, to small - no fun. But the biggest complaints have been hygiene and guys being to fat!