San Diego
Re:Condom use
>>One thing to consider. If you're that concerned,
>>you might consider a different 'hobby'.
I feel like I've just been slapped in the face. 
Hard1john, I think your question was valid. I have accomodated gentlemen who bring "dental shields", or even Seranwrap is fine. I actually like the way it feels when used on me. I think the best thing to do is bring your own shield and orchestrate the use when you are together. I believe this will answer your question. There is nothing wrong with taking a little extra precaution and feeling safe while having a great time and protecting everyone!
Hi everyone,
I don't know about the rest of the guys here, but I have a significant other. I cannot take the risk of catching something and transmitting it to her.
I see a lot of reviews where the lady provides bbbj, etc. I tend to avoid these ladies because I consider them high risk.
My question here is, would most ladies mind if I requested we did everything covered? I worry that it might kill the mood.
John
The majority of men DO have a SO, BTW, and the number of ladies who also do is about 40/60.
One thing to consider. If you're that concerned, you might consider a different 'hobby'.
>>One thing to consider. If you're that concerned,
>>you might consider a different 'hobby'.
I feel like I've just been slapped in the face.
Sorry, I (truly) don't mean to make you feel that way.
Used to the topics on the National (General) board, and the way the GUYS respond to this. You might want to visit the General Board (as well as here) as that's where the real meat is.
Here's an example of one guy's response to your very same type post:
Posted by HadAboutEnoughOfThisSh*t , 8/17/2004 10:11:12 PM
Go get another hobby NOW!!!!!!. You chickenshit newbees want everything covered in some sort of "umbrella" insurance policy that takes all risk out of all things. IT AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN!!!.
You want an omelette?, you're gonna bust a few eggs.
You want to drive? You may have an accident
You want to play sports? You're going to risk sports injuries
You want to have sex with lots of partners? Then your risk of STDs are going to be greater than sitting alone & jacking off.
Is there a reason why the TER board moderators keep allowing these snivilling, whining babies to post these inane paranoid concerns over and over and over and over and over again?
Am I alone here?
HAEOTS
BTW - I cannot receive PM's, so anyone who's PM'd me, I can't get it. Please email me: [email protected]
-- Modified on 8/27/2004 11:41:57 AM
You go girl.... And Big Time!!!! The risk is much greater for us women catching anything from men. I was going to say "maybe our numbers are higher but from the amount of reviews some of these guys have...... I would beg to differ. And I think most women, mature women, have weighed the risks of bbbj and have chosen what they feel comfortable with...and you shouldn't use that to make a judgement call on safety. And like Sedona says... if it is too hot in the kitchen, go play tennis" or something like that..(okay, she said nothing like that but you get my drift..)And if you asked me if we could wear cover for anything I would wrap you in saranwrap and we'd have ourselves a good ol time.J/k I wouldnt have a problem with it at all... that is, if you dont add the one that usually goes along with that..."and she was alot tighter than I thought she would be"...I love that one...really guys, How Rude... Have a great day....
Not to be a nit picker Sedona, but actually if you look at the statistics here from the polls, you'll find the the majority are not married. It is almost exactly 50-50. Either way, I think to answer this gentleman's question fairly would be to say few would mind covered everything. I sure don't!
The poll asks if married. It says 50% married 49% not married. Perhaps the other 1% have an SO, who knows. I do know that about half of the gents I see, I am quite certain are very single.
is that MOST everyone I know, male or female has SOMEONE, regardless of whether it's a spouse, SO, fuck-buddy, or whatever with whom they have unprotected sex.
So, even if the poll says 50% married, the other 49% probably have an SO, so it's still the same..
The truer answer would be an answer to this question:
How many have absolutely NO ONE in their life with whom they have unprotected sex? That would be the answer we were looking for.
I'm all for safety and comfort.
xoxo
Elise
Do most providers test monthly. If so, which ones?
Wow, I never realized people had such strong opinions about this stuff. I also am concerned about the ladies well-being.
Perhaps you are right, though. Maybe I should quit hobbying. After all, I have a family I love very much. "Why do I hobby?", you may ask. Well, when a guy isn't getting it at home... Perhaps if there weren't kids, I could just leave. But, as flawed as I am, I want to be there for them.
I figured by hobbying there would be less risk of emotional involvement which would mean less risk of falling in love with another woman and abandoning my family. Of course, if I get caught, it's all over.
I'm not a bad guy, just a horny guy. A horny guy who needs to be cautious.
...which in my book (and I'm sure my wife's, if she were in the loop on my hobby), is the BIG advantage of hobbying versus having a full-blown, emotion-laden affair (which has a greater chance of blowing up in your face and wrecking your family). The physical risks are there wherever you go -- in and out of hobby. No guarantees either way.
Hard1john, I think your question was valid. I have accomodated gentlemen who bring "dental shields", or even Seranwrap is fine. I actually like the way it feels when used on me. I think the best thing to do is bring your own shield and orchestrate the use when you are together. I believe this will answer your question. There is nothing wrong with taking a little extra precaution and feeling safe while having a great time and protecting everyone!
There are quite a few that ask for everything covered during the visit. There is nothing wrong with asking because the ladies will respect your wishes. Some don't want the DFK/LFK either.
Hardjohn1...I would recommend not asking types of services when emailing a lady as you did with me...hince I didn't respond. The ladies that you choose to see in the future will comply with your wishes just not during email exchanges.
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