Sweetheart, you are sadly mistaken, I know and respect babyp's judgement and personally I am tired the entire le situation, first, having been falsely accused due to a misspelled/typed, error/type-o,letter?  I have felt the rath of such rampant, and well founded, mind you, paranoia, So I could identify with these women if they arent le,?  however, if I could roll with the punches,I imagine they can too, they'll get over it and it all comes out in the wash anyway, ? and if it isnt true?, it will blow over soon enough as it did for me (I am not,and will never be, one of them, I'm not that way, it's not in me to do something like that...obviously) Look, all I wanted to say is that you should appreiciate the fact that there are people out there, who care about what happens to you! Looking out for you, (ingrate!) and, at the very least,who are putting it out there for you to determine for yourself, C'mon , if I can take it like a woman that doesent mean you should too.  Okay, sorry, but you deserved one good verbal onslaught from me,  I was a little mad at your ignorant response to someones (a personal friend of mine) Don't you think babyp deserves an apology, and maybe even a Thank-You too? and a little Verbal Morphine (apology) for you, from me...Your still Loved, Needed & Understood...okay, I'll try and be a little more understanding....(upsidedown?)...talk about trying to get perspective?!@*&... Oh, and by the way if you didnt notice.... I used my name, something I'm not overly inclined to do either ...are you happy now? And no, I'm not babyp...