Ok I've been doing this for a little over three years and have been fortunate enough to meet a lot of great ladies.  There is one particular person that I've seen during those three years.  Suddenly, I can't seem to get her off my mind and think about her constantly.  I know I'm being silly since I'm married and she could have any guy in the world, which wouldn't be me.  My questions are these- any other hobbiest become infatuated with a particular provder? For the ladies- I suspect this happens quite a bit.  How do you handle it when a client suddenly gets bit by the bug?

Move on and, as Dylan said, "Don't look back."

Well, we all get smitten now and then by a certain providers. Lord knows I have been there and done that. Several times, in fact. But reality has a remarkable way of sneeking back into your life and then you realize that your romantic notion(s) of your paramour isn't quite what you had believed. It seems we all involved in a performance theater play of some sorts. To me, humans, especially men who are generally not too austute about these matters, often start to beleive their own b.s. as "reality." But then again, what is reality?

Advice: revel in your infatuation with your lady friend like a drunken man with his whiskey, but keep in mind your place in the whole scheme of things. It may not be returned. Too much attention could be construted as harrasement in some quarters. In other words, when the little head starts telling you what to do, then it is time to start using your bigger head to see things straight!

Good luck and happy hunting out there.

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one should check 1's emotions and realize that there is a great gulf between us and the providers, almost unbridgeable, like between the moslims and the west. any romantic attachment is to be seen as a temporary joyride, fast n furious. almost like a hit of .... whatever you fancy.....
420 for me!!!

Dude, it's an emotion, that's all. It's chemistry, God's little joke, a way of getting a horny male to hang with a potentially fertile female so he can support her and her (and possilby not his) offspring.
 It's powerful stuff, but it's just a drug, made up by a few cells in your head.
 Enjoy it. If the lady's good enough to trigger those endorphens-- bestow that gift-- thank her. But don't take it seriously.
 "Falling in love" is something you should do consciously, not just at the whim of a few loose chemicals.
 BTW, want to just about guarantee you'll experience this high with every provider? Buy her panties, or take some to your date to trade (at 2 or 3:1, of course). See to it they get nice and wet; sleep with them on your pillow-- better yet, sleep with her-- and her scent will further provoke those chemicals.
 Next day or two you'll feel like a goofy teenager... it's a wonder drug, fer sure.

U dog U!!!!420!!lol