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Re:Anyone else nervous first time seeing a provider?
Cunning Lunguist 6772 reads
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1 / 8

I have an appt for tomorrow with a provider I've wanted to see for some time (will review after) but I can already feel the butterflies going in my stomach!  Anybody else get nervous before seeing a provider, especially the first time you see her?

drdavid600 5700 reads
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2 / 8

LE jitters, performance jitters or something else? If you mean excitement, you bet! The last time a well known provider called me back with an appointment, I was so excited I had to pace the house for 5 minutes, maybe 10. I was thinking she might be full up. I love incalls. It might be different if I had to wonder if a lady was going to show up, if and when. I'd still be excited though. There's nothing like a sure thing to make a day brighter.

JD100MI 14 Reviews 7523 reads
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3 / 8

The first time I saw a provider I was pretty buzzed.. so to answer your question.  No nerves.

I wouldn't recommend drinking too much before an appt. but having one or two drinks beforehand can really take the edge off and calm the nerves.

memyselfandIandyou 37 Reviews 7593 reads
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4 / 8

yep, happens a lot to me.
I always perform better the second time because Mr. Happy isn't too concerned about...all kinds of stuff.

SDMIKAL 15 Reviews 8211 reads
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5 / 8

Actually saw someone new today and was a bit apprehensive before she arrived.  But once we sat and talked a bit things went very smooth and she was a great GFE, will be posting a review shortly.

insignificant 68 Reviews 6525 reads
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6 / 8

there is nothing to be nervous about.  Hope it goes well.

rockhard 140 Reviews 7583 reads
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7 / 8

It's common to get nervous, especially if you have been wanting to see a girl for a while.
Be careful not to be too nervous, otherwise big head will keep the little head from inflating. Alcohol may make it better, but sometimes, it can make it worse.

Many times, I do get nervous if I have an advanced appointement set up with someone new. Anxiety can get to you.
In one sense, the anticipation of driving over in an incall situation, it seems that each stop light is to give you a few more minutes to think of what's to cum.....
When you arrive, unless you find a convenient parking spot, you may panic. If it's a two call set up, you hope that you get through and there's not a busy signal or even worse, you made the effort to get there early or on time and NO ANSWER.
If you are conscious about your appearance, you check yourself in a mirror that you look good. You pop a breath mint in your mouth as you walk up to the door. Maybe it's a multi level structure and you have to get into the elevator. You hope you dont meet anyone in the elevator since you want to psyche yourself up for the big game. The elevator stops and the door opens and you lookr around to find the right number. You head in the direction that you think will ultimately get you to the door. You either knock or ring the bell and try not to breath to listen for foot steps.
Then the BIG moment arrives, the door opens and........

buddy55 15 Reviews 5943 reads
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8 / 8

Do your homework like jmy68 suggested, this will help a lot.  Remember their human too and probably just as nervous as you are unless it's your first time (ever).  I like to confirm 1/2 hour before (if they pick up) as it assures them your on your way which they often appreciate and give yourself plenty of time to get there and to find "not so conspicuous" parking. Don't need to advertise to her neighbors your arriving.

buddy55

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