Set an appointment the night prior for 9 am the following morning. She asked me in a PM not to be early. I responded that I wouldn't think of it and gently reminded her not to be late (on our previous date I was left waiting 45 minutes outside her complex)

The next morning at about 6:30ish I asked her for a 30 minute slide based on a couple issues I was having and she was happy to adjust. After a confirmation e-mail prior to the appointment I was on my way. On the way there I get an e-mail asking if I could do 9:45. No problem, after all I had asked her for a small adjustment and I was thankful she e-mailed me as opposed to just letting me hang. I wait for 9:45 and go to her door, ring the bell...nothing. Thats when the thoughts enter your mind, did I push the button all the way in? Should I ring it again? What if she is on her way to the door now...ringing again may make me look pushy...those sort of thoughts. So, I waited a couple of minutes then rang the bell again...this time ensureing I pushed the button all the way in; again, nothing. A few minutes go by and I ring for a third time...followed by a knock. Nothing. Now I have been at the door for 9 minutes which in the big scheme of things is nothing...but nine minutes standing outside someones door, in the middle of an apartment complex for all to see, feels like an eternity. I start heading back to the car and a neighbor asks if I am looking for someone. Icing on the cake.

I get back to the car, check my e-mail and nothing. I e-mailed her that I was leaving and asked her not to bother following up with me.

She is notorious for this sort of thing and I guess I should have known better. I wouldn't see her again at this point if it was on the house.

That is odd.  I know from a provider friend of mine that you are a fantastic gentleman and client, and it's a shame that you were left hanging like that.  On the other hand I've heard great things about Julie's performances and it's concerning to me as to whether I'd see her on not based on this information.  I'd encourage her to respond here to clear the air.

why didn't you call me? my # is listed here?

WK syndrome coming. Yes she can delay, yes she can have an issue that leaves you hanging, but BUT; once in that door the experience is second to none. We all make our choices and to me every cancellation was met with an even better experience the next time.
Sorry the door did not open this time but my choice is to reschedule and then reschedule again

Doesn't make you a white knight bro...I respect your opinion and couldn't agree more that Julie is an incredibly great time. She's a beautiful girl, great conversationalist, and really knows how to bring it. Doesn't change the fact that my time is just as valuable as hers though and I am not going to waste any more of it waiting to see is she if she shows up.

Too many other dependable ladies who offer just as good of a time without the uncertainty.

"What we have here is a failure to communicate"...I'll vote for JD!