I have to ask, when you come to a new city, do you have intelligence or research that your rate is going to make it worthwhile. I mean, yes your all very beautiful and your ratings are stellar, but I'm curious if your satisfied with the response.  Who I'm specifically writing to are the four figure ladies.  Yes, this is hopefully gratuitous on my part (and other locals hobbiess). I'm well aware there are the well heeled clients in RSF who probably are your target audience, but the guys in El Cajon can only dream....

You get what you pay for.  Quality comes at a higher price.

Chemistry is everything. This is why I will not date half the guys I have seen in the past they are not my target clientele. Funny because they may have seen me once when I offered a special, but never again.  The reason why these ladies charge, so much is because they can.  If you can not afford their time, then why complain?

As a low volume provider who is top rated you ask yourself, do I want to see 10 guys, or just 1 respectful gent who values my time…

You have seen some of S.D.'s best was it only when their rates were low before they raised them because they were tired of the bs?

I spelled LV wrong who cares?  I should have just looked at my bag, but I never sweat the small stuff!  lol On my iphone this is just amusing to me regardless a form of personal entertainment.

 

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But I think he is referring to the ladies who come here thinking this is a $$$$+ market which for the most part it isn't. Pricing is different in every town. What you can charge in LA, NYC or DC might be a lot harder to get here.

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This is an interesting discussion and touches on a discussion a few months ago.

* SD is a small market.  As such, you will find many more high-priced providers in the big markets - NYC, LA, DC, SF or even CHI.  I have also heard directly from a few visiting providers that SD was a little slow relative to what they hoped.  It may have just been a coincidence.  The good news is that SD is unique in that it clearly is a vacation destination - so even those who don't get as much work still seem to enjoy.

* Quality or Quantity - As a hobbyist, I think you also chose how you want to participate.  Some people love the game and just want to see as many games as they can sitting in the cheap seats.  Others would rather go to only 1-2 games a year and pay-up for amazing seats.  You can't really argue with either view - it is personal preference.  Of course there are the select few that can afford season-ticket dugout seats - oh to be them, right?  What I do know is you don't want to be the person who is seen as complaining about the price of great seats.  We have all seen and heard these people - They are no fun to be around.

* I would actually counter that anyone can see $1000 provider at least once a year if they really wanted to.  I would guess nearly everyone wastes $100 a mth on dumb stuff.  Its funny how the human brain works - paying $1000 lump-sum is a huge mental hurdle, while most would be a lot more comfortable paying $80/mth to get the same thing.  It is just about prioritizing.

* the tough part for any service business is figuring out whether you are getting what you pay for?  That is where TER is so helpful.  Do you truly get double the benefit of paying double the price?  Or half the benefit for half the price?!?  I think that is where it really comes down to individual preferences.

* There is a free-market to it, in that women in the business have the ability to raise the price to what makes sense for them.  Not only will you find woman that raise their price to have more select clients, but you will find girls that provide discounts or specials if they are in a place where they want some more business.

* One thing that I have been surprised at is that I personally haven't seen many girls that offer discounts for repeating.  Maybe that is because that repeat client would be me!  But, it just seems like there is so much uncertainty and risk meeting someone new for the first time.  Basically, if there is a guy that seems nice and safe, I guess I would have expected more effort to secure more of their hobby budget.

I agree that it's most often true in life that you get what you pay for.  Probably due to my advancing years I tend to be attracted to more mature providers and often to mature providers who represent that they have a smaller client list, i.e., that they see fewer gents and hence ask for larger donations.  I also rely heavily on reviews and the quality of their websites and pictures. To me it's all about what seems to be a relative value to me at the time.

However, just because I might be drawn to the PERCEPTION that I'm paying for a " caviar and champagne" experience, it doesn't mean that a really good cheeseburger with a cold beer can't be just as satisfying.  It just depends on my appetite at the moment.  Please don't flame me for the metaphor, I'm NOT comparing any of the ladies to an actual cheeseburger, although I know a couple of them who ALWAYS taste better than anything on the menu at In n Out....and some people don't like caviar because it smells like fish.  To each their own at the moment the hunger arises.  If there are ladies who visit and want to ask for $$$$ I say great.  I know some ladies who are local and charge that much (or nearly) too and those that I've met I are, in my opinion, worth whatever they ask for some of their precious time.  I've met ladies who charge $$$ as well, and most have been all that AND a bag of chips so I guess I'm agreeing that if you see something on the menu you like and can afford it go for whatever looks good (and fresh)

Love your answer. Thank you.

You've got my post backwards. It's EZ for you to use your SD rates in those other cities. It's hard for aa lady from those cities to get her normal rates here

I was simply wondering if they are getting the  response they expected or are they writing  San Diego off their next tour?   But since I have swore off visiting ladies.....well that will be another thread.  Peace and love....

Well maybe you should ask whoever it is you were looking at when this question popped up if you want the actual answer... Just an idea.  

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On this board. It doesn't matter the subject, someone is always looking to pick a fight, degrade, or imply a negative.  It was a simple fcukin question.  And still, peace and love...my ass.

WOW!!! A simple question and the guy gets pounded on based on assumptions. Pretty lame! I have seen high priced girls advertise a week before getting here and then lower rates prior to departure. It happens from time to time, but not always if course. I HAVE seen top if the line(priced) as well as moderately priced providers. Due to those experiences, I have a set amount I will never go over for an hour. I've had far better luck with moderately priced providers in terms of great service. Not all mind you, but better than the 400+ crowd. Just my .02 cents.

Me too. Seems like the ones north of 400 have an attitude like they are doing us a favor to see us. I for one boycott those. You make your own decisions. Also just FYI for those in NC ... There are plenty of respectful providers in the OC.

If you read my reply as negative read it again.
Your reply to the replies implied you didn't get the answer you wanted so the logical solution would be to contact whomever brought up your concerns and conduct your own interview. The replies from local ladies seemed to make sense but unless you ask the person in question it's all speculation and guess work. I think the ladies who replied were spot on...

 
You said:
"I was simply wondering if they are getting the  response they expected or are they writing  San Diego off their next tour?   But since I have swore off visiting ladies.....well that will be another thread.  Peace and love.... "

My reply:
"Well maybe you should ask whoever it is you were looking at when this question popped up if you want the actual answer... Just an idea.  *insert winky face* "

I hope your reply below wasn't toward my comment because I don't see how it resembles picking a fight, is degrading or even slightly negative. You seemed to suggest your answer was not provided so... Especially since all the ladies replies were from local ladies it would stand to reason asking the person/people directly would be the was to get the answer you seek. Try to un-bunch your panties and have fun! I don't see anyone in this thread hating so keep spreading that peace, love and the ladies thighs!

I'm sorry but I fail to see any hate in any of these responses.  I thought your question was interesting as were most of the responses.  None of them in any way denigrated you for asking the question or in any way was critical to you personally.  As it developed it became clear that you have strong feelings about some providers who charge more or less. That is absolutely your right and I support your right to express it.  I'd suggest to everybody who read the responses OR wrote one that if you want to be privy to people's opinions and a free exchange of truth we need to support everybody's right to an opinion and be tolerant or this board will become another place on the internet where people scream at one another and good info ceases to be exchanged.  Just my 2 cents...

All I was asking is do ladies in the 4 figure per hour catagory find San Diego a good market.  Thats all.  Don't read anymore into it.it was a innocent question I had wondered about.  GK, no offense to you...

I think Goldie is the only person at that price point based in SD (as well as being active on the SD boards), so you have to understand why she chimed in as she did - it seemed like a direct question at her (at least from my seat over here).  The very few visiting providers at that price point who have been to SD over the last year would never see your post - unless they happened to be visiting now.  So, I think Goldie was trying to take the highroad and say if you are actually looking for an answer from them, you should email them directly.

Tara Bentley, Carly Dahl, Dani Woodward...but I was initially asking "visiting"providers not locals.  I was asking, again, if San Diego was a good market.  

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It sure would be interesting to hear what the aforementioned ladies have to say but they don't seem to be regular participants in this forum.  Fortunately, there are provider perspectives provided regularly by Madame P., Goldie K.,  
Goddess J. with timely contributions by Annabelle L., Toni L., Natasha C., and a few others.  I think it is time to hear them not just read there words and react.

They actually have a SD rate at $500.

Exactly... Tara and Carly have a local rate.  I wasn't aware of Dani Woodward...but I have never seen her post an ad here or comment, so I can't imagine she will respond either.

Mr. Roberts - I am not saying it isn't a fair question - it just doesn't make sense to ask here (on SD local board).  The place to post would be on the LA or NYC board - you can ask in general about visiting small markets (doesn't have to be SD per se).  Or just ask girls like Victoria Westwood directly - I know she visits a couple times a year.

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I tend to disagree, because under any particular set of constraints (i.e. time) there is only so much you're going to receive in terms of service/enjoyment. Just because I spend $400 for a one hour session instead of $200 doesn't mean I am going to get twice as much pleasure out of it. While I understand that this is your profession and it's your right to try to maximize your income whenever possible, there are other dynamics going on with many American providers, including the care and maintenance of one's ego. I have long submitted that providers in this country don't get into the business merely for the cash income, but do it as a way of reaffirming their own desirability and sense of self-worth. Feeding one's ego can be as important as feeding one's wallet, and there are certainly plenty of narcissistic women out there who view their own self-worth in terms of how much they can get (or CLAIM to get) from their customers, as it feeds their own utility. However, it doesn't necessarily do more for me, the customer. If I pay some woman twice what I normally find is necessary to have an enjoyable session, do I get twice the pleasure out of the experience? Does it give me an erection twice as long/hard as a normal erection? Do I get to cum twice in the same session, or cum twice as much, or have it last twice as long? Do I get 4 titties to play with instead of two? The assumption that my enjoyment will increase linearly with the amount of funds expended seems rather hard to justify based on the empirical evidence.

The person you are addressing is basing his opinions on empirical evidence, which seems quite reasonable to me.

Never, EVER forget that many women who become providers aren't driven to it by a lack of economic opportunities, but do it to feed their own egos and assure themselves of their own desirability in the eyes of men. Prostitutes, drag queens, and performers all need to be the center of attention. If you really want to PO a hooker, all you got to do is ignore her or act like she's not there.

That's the equivalent of two one-hour sessions with the hottest K-gals in UTC. Looks like I won't be taking them up on their offer at that rate any time soon...

Here's where you're making a bit of an assumption. You're assuming that these customers really want to see these high-priced providers and are complaining about their inability to finance the session. Ever consider that they are merely considering the price of the session vs. what they will get out of it, and have merely decided that it's not worth it? Personally, I don't complain about the high asking prices of certain providers. I just make the decision if they are really worth the money and act accordingly.

This guy is spot on.