Ok I get to post again...been wanting to LaceyFoxx who posts ads on another San Diego board. Won't go into all the details in my review there but basically I had a confirmed appt the other night at 8pm. So I get to beach resort at 7:55, text asking for room number. No answer. Then I call at 8:05. No answer, and voice mail was not even set up. Text again at 8:08. 8:10, I'm done. Sorry but my days of putting up with this BS are over. At 8:11 I get a call, but other end is inaudible, I say hello a bunch of times then line goes dead. Then the angry texts start at 8:15. "Sorry I was late, I'm only human, thanks for wasting our time, etc..." Well Lacey has some good reviews, too bad I couldn't have been writing one.
To all the younger providers out there who haven't learned to be professional yet, the customer experience starts from the FIRST interaction. I am the customer, I decide how long it is reasonable to wait past a confirmed appt time without hearing from you. It is OK TO BE LATE, IF you would have just let me know BEFORE the appt time! To not answer texts or calls right around the time is simply inexcusable (and please don't reply with a bunch of "what if she slipped in tub and was knocked out" baloney reasons). To play disappearing act then be angry at ME for not putting up with your rude, inconsiderate, don't give a cXXX attitude? We should not be tolerating this for one second. Anyway Lacey needs to learn there are consequences for jerking people around, and this post is one of them.
For 15 minutes late?
To all the younger providers out there who haven't learned to be professional yet, the customer experience starts from the FIRST interaction. I am the customer, I decide how long it is reasonable to wait past a confirmed appt time without hearing from you. It is OK TO BE LATE, IF you would have just let me know BEFORE the appt time! To not answer texts or calls right around the time is simply inexcusable (and please don't reply with a bunch of "what if she slipped in tub and was knocked out" baloney reasons). To play disappearing act then be angry at ME for not putting up with your rude, inconsiderate, don't give a cXXX attitude? We should not be tolerating this for one second. Anyway Lacey needs to learn there are consequences for jerking people around, and this post is one of them.
Yes Really! All she had to do was reply to his texts or answer when he called or texted or called him ahead of time and I'm sure he would have waited.
Then again, don't bitch about the service and the lack of linen table cloths when you choose McDonalds over Flemmings.
and a drive thru even!
Correct me if I’m wrong but I believe he’s referring the quality of the restaurant
Yes. What no one can ever seem to wrap their head around is the fact that a simple text/call BEFORE the appt time would change everything. "Hey I'm sorry I am running about 15 minutes late". Me: "Ok no prob thanks for letting me know". See? Is that so hard?
Communication is everything, so she should have told you in advance & maybe gave you an opportunity to make it a better night! There is no substitute for experience. Quality companionship is not hard to find. If you can attend a M&G 1st. The other board you referred to has happy hours every week. I am in the process of planning a San Diego TER party. You can also, post this under the hobbyist only board.
I think 15 minutes is just about the right time to wait around. Seriously, the longer you wait the more furious you're gonna get. I've had ladies text me hours later acting like it's no big deal. Giving every excuse in the book. When all I needed is a simple text saying you're gonna be late or not gonna make it at all.
LaceyFoxx faces possible damage to career for 15 minute tardy...hahaha
“Don’t me tardy for the party” lol
You'll be back on top when you get another 10 Lacey (wink wink)
Ok...
I don't mean to be the captain save a hoe but I want to make sure you guys understand the impact of those bad reviews, not only business wise but also the psychologicall impact it can have on a very young provider.
I don't know Lacey, I know about her and she is a lil celebrity on the other site.
I did call her one day to do a ménage a 3 and she said yes then stopped answering...this is the story of a provider's life, time management!
Here is what I think happened:
She prices her self VERY low and she does it all so the volume she is encountering must be huge!
When I first started I made the same mistake by offering quickies...the volume was insane, guys were taking advantage of the time (pushing to 20-25min) this is why I won't EVER offer quickie again! God my life was HELL!
So Who knows? Maybe she was with someone who actually took too long to leave and now that makes her look bad...
I understand if she would of been an hour late...but this was 11 MINUTES!
She is so young, she will learn to put enough time between sessions, to set up her email and be professional.
It really is a full time job that requires maturity...
Mistake make you stronger only if you learn from them...
However...I don't think it was cute to put her on blast like this especially cause she doesn't have an account with TER and can't defend her self!
There is ALWAYS 2 side of the story...
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Leaving a bad review on this site is just ridiculous, she doesn't even post on it... I think you know that if you would of leave that post on the other site you would of look like a fool...
You actually choosed to be with a very young lady who pretty much just started that is very famous on the site.
If you would of being A LITTLE patient, I'm sure you would of have a great time. Maybe she was freshen up for you for Christ sake!
Situation happen, are you so perfect? You never arrived late 11 minutes EVER in your life?
What I would be curious about is see that very same post on the other site where she can actually defend herself and see what happen...?
Come on, being vendictive is childish.
Next time, wait 12 minutes!
Nope entirely the wrong way to look at it. As I said if she would have called before the appt and said she was running late that would have changed everything. Instead it is a big F U, my time is more important than yours. Who is the person here operating a business?
That other is site is all about the ladies. This site is 50/50 and fair. I think you know that. There was an issue that arose with a certain provider that posts here and over there. I put the the same post here and over there. I got flamed over there and the post was never posted. Here It was posted and we had a healthy discussion and I think we were all better for it. The fact is, young, seasoned, newbie, busy or not, if she said 8 and did not answer the phone or his texts. I have been in a similar situation and I waited for over a half hour and didn't hear anything until hours later. When she did text me later she acted like it was no big deal. If he posted this same thread over there, he would have got flamed. Look at all the moderators.......hmmmm mostly providers. I think he made a valid point and he is entitled to post here precisely because as a Hobbyist I need to be aware of her behavior and habits.
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Sorry your time was wasted! She could have communicated with you! Its very unprofessional. I hope that you find another lady that will better suit your needs!
This is so lame, that theres hardly a point of defending.. Yet irritating enough to make me chime in w/ thoughts from the peanut gallery..
1. Strange thing about this "consequence".. It had no effect on me, while making you seem childish.. Since when is that considered a consequence?
2. Feel better now?
I remain,
LaceyFoxx
To all the younger providers out there who haven't learned to be professional yet, the customer experience starts from the FIRST interaction. I am the customer, I decide how long it is reasonable to wait past a confirmed appt time without hearing from you. It is OK TO BE LATE, IF you would have just let me know BEFORE the appt time! To not answer texts or calls right around the time is simply inexcusable (and please don't reply with a bunch of "what if she slipped in tub and was knocked out" baloney reasons). To play disappearing act then be angry at ME for not putting up with your rude, inconsiderate, don't give a cXXX attitude? We should not be tolerating this for one second. Anyway Lacey needs to learn there are consequences for jerking people around, and this post is one of them.