Most of us hobbyists have our list of favorite providers that we like and revisit for various reasons. She's hot! Her service is like no other! Her intimate personality! A combination of these and countless others. To each his own, right?

Ladies, you have your favorites too, right? Of course you do! He is kind, respectful, generous, handsome, a hunk, he can make you cum when most can't and can maybe do it consistently. He's a guy you don't even think of "faking it" with because you don't want the hour to end because he has your number and always makes YOU feel so special. A guy you just "click" with because the mutual chemistry is there?

So, my question is, short of marrying the guy, lol!, do you ever consider giving this guy a discount or freebie so he might be able to see you more often? So YOU can see him more often? I know you're in business but, at some point, does quality trump quantity?

There are a few ladies I've seen where there seemed to be a mutual connection on an intimate level. Such a level where she seemed to enjoy herself as much, or more, than I did. I drove away with a broad smile on my face, a tingling in my loins, and the thought that she should have paid me! I don't mean that literally. I always strive to please who I am with. I'm just curious if this is something you ever consider.

I consider giving some additional time.
Even going to lunch or something off the clock to those special guyss..
And when I can trust that a guy sees me regularly surely he gets perks.

I used to list it in my ads - maybe I should again
I usually used to offer a discount to friends who visit quarterly, monthly, bi-monthly and weekly.
Each was a different special getting better the more you visited.

All of these "frequent flier" deals would be void and return to original rate if a meeting was missed or not made in time (things come up so some grace period was allotted if informed with notice).

I for one prefer my returning dates but always welcome new friends who may want a long term companion-relationship.

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frequency, loyalty and generosity.  If you are in the top 5% with a provider on these three criteria, you can expect some show of appreciation which can take one or more of several different forms, i.e., discounts, extra time, freebies, etc.  My preference is off the clock social time for dinner or other types of fun outings, and if a freebie is also offered, I would never turn it down.  Discounts don't mean much to me, so the extra social time is a much better reward for me.

rarely do i meet the lady who is a time nazi.  and i have a couple regulars that are very very generous with their time, and in fact, they make the whole evening seem like a real date rather than a timed-out sessional transaction.  

without getting into specifics, last month i booked a 3 1/2 hr date that turned into 5 1/2 hours.  i had another date with a another lovely lady in a hotel that, after we were done, ended up with her inviting me to appetizers on the concierge level for another hour off the clock.  and last week (tho this is not a discount or extra time, more like a perk), an old friend touring from out of town invited me for a session to the beverly hills apartment she was renting, when her other incalls for the week were booked at a downtown hotel (she told me i was one of her atfs so she wanted a more intimate environment.  also she had her assistant change her travel plans when i was unable to see her the week she originally scheduled an la visit).

i believe that as in civvie life, a little respect and consideration goes a long way, and karma is always watching.

plus i'm hung like a rhino. (ok, j/k on that last part)