But.. I'm thinking I want to try a massage with a Prostate massage.

Never had a prostate check when it was suppose to be fun, always by swollen fingered divemed MD's.

At least that's what I'm told. I am a CMT and knowing "Lingham Massage" and some of what is considered "Tantric Manipulations" has made many a boy turn into putty in my well trained hands!! I urge you to try it out at least once then you can say if you liked it or not!!
Kissez that haunt your dreams
Sage

Not for everyone, but give it a try.  Pretty damned hot if the provider understands the rules (won't go into details here) and takes it slow for a newbie.  Make sure the providers talks you through it the first time.