I have done a few duos where ladies keep their heels on but I find I am so "wild" I worry I may impale my date...

Only because I know how playful you can be, I think for safety reasons I'd slip them off your feet.

Girl in bed: soft, smooth, warm, sensual, responsive, delicious smells.
shoe in bed: hard edges, rough to touch, unresponsive, hurts to touch, unyielding.

U are wearing Lace-Top Backseam Fishnet Thigh High hosiery.  U have perfectly manicured toes with the hottest red nail polish that screams kiss me boys. A quick spray of perfume near the privates so a man can linger in heaven.

To each his own, I guess, but no shoes for me. Bare feet and bare skin. No stockings, garters, or lingerie either.

They can be very nice too hold on to. But I agree off for the most part

hot "come fuck me" heels and a waterbed.  Not a great combo.  Its nice to be greeted at the door by a friend in pumps.  Being tall, its great not to have to bend too far for that welcoming dfk.  And I know a provider who has them stationed next to a stripper pole in her place.    But when we get to the bed, I like them off, in part because if I just think its cool for both of us to be in our birthday suits.  I don't have a link but on another site I saw a provider wearing them in the hot tub - I kid you not.  I felt that was particularly incongruous.  Just my two cents.

Only if I'm taking you standing up, something we haven't tried yet.

Again, to each his own, but I have no need or desire to hold onto a ladies shoes while having sex.  

Any shoes on a provider while we are playing in bed is a turnoff for me.

I agree they can impale, but still… Enough people ask for them to remain on (1 out of 8 maybe?) that I'm surprised the results were unanimous!  I always ask before I take my off.

I once asked a very hot provider to greet me wearing nothing but heels.  She did and it was an amazing experience.  Once horizontal she gave me the option of her keeping them on or off.  I opted for off.

it all might get to be a blur occasionally, but I have some nice memories with ladies keeping them on, at least at the start.

I always wear 4 to 6 inch stripper heels for visual affect, however I do  
slip them off, upon request, which is rare.

I love sexy high heels, but most guys get a little nervous about them kept on during a romp. They do it in porn though! But, that has editing and many takes. So I guess for a rough, good, pleasurable, and SAFE time, take them off prior? lol

I love to catch the sight of heels up in the air from my peripheral vision. They add to the beauty of the leg and the majesty of the woman.  Perhaps later they can come off. A truly sensual woman can make potato sacks on her feet sexy.

I'm very glad this question was asked. I love to wear thigh highs and stilettos to bed once in a while. When I catch a glimpse of a heel, or the shape of my arched foot, I get excited by it. I cannot walk in stilettos so this is how I enjoy them most.

I think they are sexy on

Oh come on, you don't appreciate those red bottoms?  Lmfao!

I love the on for as long as possible.  Especially if they are sexy strappy heels up on my shoulder.

To taking them off once you both have reached the bed... Hehehe

I have no interest in having shoes in bed with me.

On...standing naked waiting for me.  Off once you get to the bed.