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carledo 7 Reviews 1385 reads
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Was looking for a provider this Saturday night checked out a few providers and I pick one. Email her on Friday she emailed back Saturday and told me she would talk more tomorrow (Sunday) here we are Wednesday and nothing I don’t want to wait the last minute to find out she can’t and I also don’t want to pick another and then have her email me about meeting Saturday. What would you do if you were me Thanks?

Send her an email today saying that while you understand it is still a few days out you need confirmation that Saturday is still good to go or otherwise you will begin looking for another provider tomorrow. Also, if she lists a phone number and says it's okay to call in any ads I would also call and leave a message as to your intent. If you are a VIP member also send her a PM with your message. Generally frequently reviewed and highly rated providers are booked well in advance even in this economy so I find it a bit unusual that she has not gotten back to you. As long as you let her know what you intend to do, in my view you can't really be subject to any reasonable criticism.

I would suggest the following:

1. Go with another provider - taking too long to get back to you.. Red Flag 2. Pick a good provider using the advanced search on TER - Choose the ones with good references.
3.  Most of the good providers are really good about getting back to you within 24 hours
4.  Pick and have fun - from your note move on because this one will most likely stand you up.

Some of us providers are overwhelmed with phone calls and emails! If your heart is really set on her, email again and let her know and ask when is her next availability.    :0)

Just my personal opinion! Hope all works out for the best!

xoxo
annabelle

You wrote that you were looking for a provider on Saturday last Friday.  Reading further, I am guessing you were looking for the next Saturday but even I couldn't tell for sure.  

I would write back and say "I would like to see you in this time frame on this date".  Fillng in the blanks as to what you are looking for.  Also, if she screens, send her the information she wants or enough to make her feel that you are doing more than just kicking the tires.  

Bottom line.  Be clear and be ready to give her what she needs to be comfortable and you can always schedule well in advance.  Also, if the date is way in advance, set a time to re-confirm with her.  If you think she is going to flake, do some research of women that you want to see that may be available within hours after checking you out.  That way you have a plan if you can't re-confirm.

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arden moon Im getting to know.Im quite impressed with her..
sagey baby.. just a great lady..
hope that helps.
I dont know many of the ladies in san diego but those ladies I spoke of will probably be more than happy to help you if they are not available..its part of the provider sisterhood.: )
btw.. I give you carledo the thumbs up if any ladies are hesitant.. they can check my blogs from a year plus ago to see about our time together
happy hobbying!!!
sincerely
lorena

Thanks guys you all where great help. The more I looked at it the more I see that it may have been my misunderstanding, The provider did email me back and can't make it this Saturday but this is my mistake. I will do a vip search and find another great provider
thanks again
Carledo
ps Thanks Lorena you are the best

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