I'm looking to get my first quality GFE under my belt. Someone I can use as a solid reference in the future, and also have a good first experience with. Incall is a must, I have roughly 600 to spend...
I've had many great experiences here in San Diego (and elsewhere) by sticking to well-reviewed ladies here on TER. Read the reviews, using the prism of the kind of girl/experience that really turns you on. Find someone who is experienced -- you don't want a newbie or someone who is overly shy or reserved for your first. And I highly recommend you spread that $600 over two or three hours, maybe with the first 30 minutes or so at a bar for a couple of drinks to get acquainted. One hour is not really enough time to enjoy this hobby -- no matter how talented the provider is. But, above all, have FUN.
Hotsouthernbelle took my cherry last year and what a great experience it was! Very relaxed, generous with her time and made me feel like a long lost boyfriend. Thanks Belle!
the extended time makes sense so you are not rushed; you can enjoy yourself in 90 minutes, imo; I set my first time for 60 minutes but was fortunate that the lady and I clicked and she was not watching the clock so we ended up with some extra time; but 90 minutes at least would make sense
not sure why you'd want to meet at a bar first really; the more experienced ladies will help you relax even if you start at their place and personally I would prefer starting with a cocktail in a private, quiet place, but then again I am not a bar kind of guy; you said it has to be incall, you might prefer someone who does incall at something other than a hotel, someone like Cierra Reigns comes to mind there, great place to meet for a first time and wonderful person to be with.
I completely agree to start with a very well reviewed lady; after that your own preferences come into play; for a first time you might prefer to meet with someone who includes photos without blurred faces as you might be more comfortable really knowing ahead of time exactly who you would be meeting with -- Madame Patricia posted a response to you, her photos are real and I have seen her and I had a great time with her with her. Miss Eva Bliss provides real photos and I just met with her and had a fantastic time. hope that helps
Thanks for the advice. I've done a good amount of research and read A LOT of reviews, but it's really hard to find someone who doesn't require a reference. Also, how would you recommend I ensure that a girl will remember me when I try to use them as a reference? Is it something I have to talk to them about during my session?
Cameron, Sage, Belle and while I have not had the pleasure I think Cierra. But as paperback says just do a search of reviews for 8 and above on performance (if it's less than 8 it's either not GFE as characterized by TER guidlines or just not so good). Good luck!!!
Based only on my own first experiences, I'd recommend someone close to your own age. You'll have common shared experiences and be able to relate to her better than someone half your age (apologies if I've made a bad assumption about your age). While the younger ladies can be a lot of fun, I still suffer from "what the hell is she doing here in bed with me?". I second the suggestion on booking more than 1 hour the first time. Since you say you are looking for GFE, I'd guess you are looking for more than a quickie. 600 should get you plenty of time with any number of the lovely ladies here in San Diego. Just be prepared to offer up some personal details to get through the screening process and remember to breathe.
Yeah, references are a pain, but many providers will work something if you are able to provide them with enough personal information to make them comfortable. If your date is a TER member, ask her to put you on the whitelist -- it will help you a lot in the future. Also, be sure she has your hobbying email address or phone number so that she'll remember you better when you ask her for references down the road. Some providers are reference friendlier than others.
Based only on my own first experiences, I'd recommend someone close to your own age. You'll have common shared experiences and be able to relate to her better than someone half your age (apologies if I've made a bad assumption about your age). While the younger ladies can be a lot of fun, I still suffer from "what the hell is she doing here in bed with me?". I second the suggestion on booking more than 1 hour the first time. Since you say you are looking for GFE, I'd guess you are looking for more than a quickie. 600 should get you plenty of time with any number of the lovely ladies here in San Diego. Just be prepared to offer up some personal details to get through the screening process and remember to breathe.
Your tastes seem to be running long and lean. And it is important to know if you have a type.
Maybe I am doing my search of reviews wrong, but as far as I can tell there is 1 review of this Terra person. So, that would not fit the advice provided here to start with a well-reviewed provider -- what was meant was someone who had plenty of positive reviews.
One review, says the photos seem old and possibly enhanced and she is inexperienced.
In terms of ladies who post here, or have a presence here, etc., the only one of your list who fits that is Annabelle.
Kadia had no reviews from 9/09 until 11/10 and then no reviews since then.
So, if you are going to narrow it down to three ladies, after that, based on the advice given here, the choice seems simple.
Now, having done all that, the real key to having a nice time where a reference will be given later depends on your attitude and how you treat her. You know that, right?
If I had your opportunity I would upgrade & go BIG because the memories about the BEST experiences of your life-time are something you hold in high regard!
I really appreciate everyones help and advice, and I've ultimately decided on Annabelle, you all have spoken so highly of her I just couldn't resist.
And yes I know I have to treat a girl properly and have a good attitude. Perhaps I should have phrased my question like this "Is there a specific way I should bring up her being a reference for me in the future, are there any websites or anything in particular i should ask about? I've heard a lot of people talk about whitelist and p411, but I'm just very unfamiliar with that aspect of the encounter.
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