It really sucks when a hobbyist is so careless with e-mails or phone calls that an SO interecpts.  Number 1, she is very, very hurt.  This is the only area that I hold conflict in my participation.  Number 2, my yahoo account has been hacked 2 days after I get the call from the angry SO.  Don't know if it is related, but if it is, it is very possible that I have correspondence or folders of friends who are now vulnerable.  This is the 3rd time I have been contacted by a lady who feels very betrayed and humiliated since I have participated in this arena.  So if anyone who has corresponded with me recently, or we might be friends of any type gets wierd approaches. This is probably why.....Be smart, think about who you might hurt.  If married or attached guys must participate, than at least have enough compassion to protect your woman from pain.  I have been forced to change my domain and rebuild my website, as well as change my e-mail for YOUR protection.  My profile here will be updated shortly  My .com website is still open, I can't delete it until YAHOO finally responds.  Can't even cancel it unless I can login.  So sending tons of e-mails to yahoo, and getting generic responses, so whoever is sending e-mails to the old address are possibly being monitored by hostiles....... same domain name, but with .net now for new info....Please be safe and careful and CONSIDERATE of your woman and fellow hobbyists and providers.  This could actually be a dangerous situation as I have been seriously threatend.

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