I will be comming to S D in a few weeks an Im staying in the Hotel Circle area in a large resort. I will not have a car to get around, so is this location to far away for the ladys to come and see me?

Hotel Circle is located in just about the center of the city.  If ladies are hesitant to see you in that area it would probably not be for your location but for other reasons.  In this area you are 10-15 minutes from downtown, the airport and the beach.