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QUI_SERA_SERA 10 Reviews 5733 reads
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I recently have seen a highly reviewed provider (rather not name names) and I have to say it was one of the worse experiences I ever had. I am a bit puzzled by the reviews she has and would like to know what you guys think. I asked clearly this provider for a FBSM (no more, no less) and based on the many posted reviews it was my understanding was that the massage ends with a "happy ending". The massage was average then things turned weird. First she wanted to stick a dildo in my "back door". I said NO WAY!!! I was shoked she even suggested that since nothing I said or did would have suggested I had the slightest interest in that! Then it was all about her: her wanting to get off, her wanting to be touched in very specific ways, her playing with the dildo, her loking at herself in the miror and admiring her "hot" body (not so hot in my opinion). What the f..k? I was paying $$$ for this??? Add the fact that she was rude most of the time: "do this", "don't do that", "who told you you can put you hands there?"... I quickly lost interest and decided to leave. She even got offended by me leaving and said she has excellent reviews so what was wrong with me? She was decent enough to refund a third of the fee since the session ended short. I don't have that much grief against the provider since she is in fact highly reviewed. My questions to you guys: do you pay $$$ to get this type of service? What happened to a good old FBSM, especially when that's what was promised? I am at a loss here.

gordo4828 reads

Only that YMMV almost always applies. However, your description is of a provider who is mostly concerned with herself instead of the "customers" satisfaction. One would think that self centered attitude would come across in previous reviews. I had a similar experience with a certain FBSM provider in Oceanside who advertises on SDX. Would this possibly be the same one?

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QUI_SERA_SERA4634 reads

It seems like the same provider (same area and similar attitude)... OK at least I am not the only one who experienced something like this. When I think I drove 30min to meet her...
And Sedona: no it wasn't funny :)

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gordo4660 reads

I believe the subject of your post is Natalie West-at least that's who I was referring to. I'm still puzzled because of her abundance of positive reviews, yet my experiene was very similar to yours-an uncomfortable therapeutic massage followed by a mechanical "don't f**king dare touch me" finish. I remember having the odd thought that I actually felt worse when I left than when I got there. She did also offer the back door treatment, and my response was like yours-with her it seemed more like an offer of prison rape.

I wrote a review of the experience and tried to be as positive as possible and still be accurate. In hindsight I was probably too positive in my comments.

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sedonasandiego3350 reads

but it struck me funny reading it. Hope I didn't offend you, and if I did, I'm sorry.

I think it might've been because I had heard a story earlier that day when I posted, and I can't say much more but it was similar and if you heard it, you'd be laughing.

I'm sorry you had a bad experience. Who knows what could be going on with her? Ever listen to people's lives? They really suck. Since that's part of what I do for a living, it's amazing at how bad things are for people.
Maybe someone who is close to her can see what is going on. Whenever someone has a good reputation, with good reviews, and they begin to plunge, that's a good clue that something's wrong and she may need some help.
The fact that she got weirded out from both of you about touching her might mean she's had some LE presence, or that someone has harmed her.
Maybe you can contact her again, and express your concern? Some people have a hard time reaching out for help..

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bearguy4355 reads

your first mistake was agreeing to pay $$$ for a FBSM. That is a bit much even with todays weak US Dollar.  Check out the reviews for massage.  You will probably pay one half the $$$ and get a better ending.

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lasvegas864583 reads

.... post an honest, fair and accurate review.  Some of the things you mentioned actually sound like fun-- depending on the girl.  Though clearly her job is to make sure you're happy-- not herself.  let us know who she is with a review-- that's what TER is all about.

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sedonasandiego4363 reads

but what I was picturing while reading this was two people in two whole different mindsets trying to get to the same place and passing like ships in the night! LOL!

Here she is in this role of I'm so hot, but you can't have me, and I know you wan't me but don't dare touch me even though you want to fuck me because I'm so hot so get over here and let me put this up your ass  and you're like WTF??

It sounds like she was getting 'her funky groove on' (love it when someone I know says that!) and you weren't " there" with her.

Reminds of this. As a fairly new Provider, I had what was then my longest date. In the time allotted, we could get a good sense of likes and dislikes. He liked dirty talk. Ok!
So, the next week, on a new date, I said something dirty, and he actually pushed me away to look me in the face, with the most disgusted look on his face! I was really rather embarrassed, but now I laugh every time I think of it!

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SurfNaked5129 reads

My ATF in San Diego was out of town and I was in need of someone for a good massage.  I was in the North County area and gave Natalie a call.  She asked how long and I told her.  She was very chatty, but gave me a great massage with a great ending.  GREAT body (don't know how anyone could say that it isn't good) and she does enjoy looking in the mirror.  She said that if I would have gone for a longer session that we could have done more.  She didn't offer anthing 'odd' at all.  Sorry if anybody had a bad experience with her, but I left there feeling pretty good.  That was why I said that Amber and Natalie would be one hell of a rub down! :)

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funtime693570 reads

I have seen Natalie west. She is a very nice girl. I had a wonderful time with her. Great massage, some touching, No dildo action at all. Maybe you were acting in a way that she felt the Back Door action was what you wanted. (no offense).
She is a bit chatty, but so are many providers. She is also very pretty. I had a 1&1\2 hour appointment...
I feel that someone needs to offer some positive feedback for this lady. So I tried my best to inform. If you hav't seen her yet give her a try.

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funtime693428 reads

I also wanted to add that she is very holistic (sp),  and knowledgeable. I saw her because of a pinched nerve\neck ailment. She used a variety of oils and other healing products. I must say i was impressed and further that it reminded me of my hometown of Santa Cruz where one can find a great theraputic massage.

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gordo4758 reads

If you're touting N. West because she gives a great therapeutic massage then I don't think you'll get much disagreement here. However, in the reviews "massage quality" is only part of the equation. You're not going to see a girl from SDX strictly because you have a sore neck. One of your reviews is of Rhonda who is IMO awesome in all respects-kind of the gold standard in FBSM.

That's what the reviews are there for, someone like Rhonda will have 99% glowing reviews so you can make an informed decision on who to see. Somebody with more inconsistant reviews, like N. West, is more of a risk and is up to the individual whether they want to take that risk.

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funtime693598 reads

hey Gordo, because I had a sore neck is the exact reason i saw natalie. I heard from TER that she gives a great legit massage. That was the primary reason I saw her. Yes, there was a secondary reason also. I didn't explore the exotics site.
I havn't seen a provider other than natalie in months. This was a special occasion, and because she lives near me that aided in the reasoning to see her.
I wasn/t in the mood to write a review with limited range of motion in my neck. It has been 3 weeks or so. There may be rules against old reviews. Plus I am lazy and didn't feel like dealing with my efforts being "not explicit enough" as some of my past reviews were and forces me to keep on modifying.....For the record I didn't pay $300...That may be a different service. I was looking for her to torque on my pressure points. She did that without any upselling..

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insignificant3562 reads

I'm blown away that you would agree to $$$ to get a hj.  I am equally blown away at guys who pay $$$$ or more for fs.  Come on, guys.  There is absolutely no reason for this.

Sounds like you paid $$$ to get ripped off, and thats exactly what you got.

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