We each have our own approach to the hobby. Nobody wants to be lectured here.
Posted By: BigPeterJohnson
we might not be so hostile if lamont showed any kind of respect towards the providers. personally, i'm not "boning" or "scratching the brillo" with anyone. it would be different if lamont asked "who have you been enjoying recently" or "what providers have you seen recently that you could recommend?"
but lamont brings it down to a disgusting junior high level where the actual experience between two people, whether or not there's monetary compensation involved, means nothing, and it's simply bragging rights.
i'm not into this scene to brag about how many or who i've "boned." i have a handful of ter buddies i backchannel with, letting them know when i find a particularly gifted provider, or had a really fun time. and one thing i love about this who endeavor is, unlike civilian girlfriends, my provider girl friends just love to hear about the other ladies i see and what we do together.
but i'm not shouting it out for a bunch of sniggering school boys to drool over. yes, this is p4p, but there is still intimacy involved, and intimacy does not imply indiscriminate blabbing.
men discuss. boys brag.