Hello to all TER members and providers. I'm new to TER and have been spending quite a bit of time reading the SD message boards. I was just wondering if the providers have a black list of "problem" clients and if not they should get one started. Thanks in advance for hearing a newbie out, Nic

Yes, we should consider very carefully however, what that would mean and the standards that would qualify someone for that.

I posted a message, when this thread opened up,
telling of my and a friends experience of
being raped and robbed by a client.
Was it never posted because of some reason
I don't understand?
I think that even though I didn't say his name or
number, that the info might be useful for other
providers who may hear from him, and avoid trouble
by recognizing his description.
I suppose I may have made a mistake and hit
reset by accident.  I doubt it though.  Because
I actually posted two responses to this thread.
The second was to give the proper url to a
bad client site.  Neither post was posted.  Although,
a response that I made to another subject at the same
time was posted.
I don't suppose it was censored because of the
home invasion rape and robbery I described, or by
details that I mentioned about the bad client site?
I'm very curious, but I'm also fairly new here and
don't want to antagonize staff or other readers by
demanding answers to a question that maybe everybody
else understands, but I'm still in the dark about.
I also feel that what I said in my post has value for
other providers, though.

It could be useful information.
In my case, even though, I may not have his
real name, I can describe VERY distinctive
features about him, that might stand out in
someones memory, should she run into him.
I won't describe him again, until I find out
why my previous post about him was never posted.
I think staff may object to something I said about
him.
Everyone who has run into this guy though, could
have avoided it by listening to our intuition and
screening.  
In my case, I was desperate for money and let greed
take over.  I rationalized that since I knew where he
lived, that I would have no problems with him.
If anyone wants details about him, just email me.
[email protected]
Also, it always takes a long time for my posts to
be posted.  It seems like mine take longer than
other peoples, judging by the dates.  I suppose that
is because I am relatively new here and they are afraid
I will post something mean or whatever.
Thank goodness that there don't seem to be many weirdos
out there.  I have always had 99 percent wonderful
clients.  As corny as it sounds, I do try to live by
the golden rule, so I often chalk up my good clients
to the fact that I am good to them.  
Maybe, due to something along the lines of karma, we
just don't hear about a lot of the weirdos.  
Maybe they are attracted to the rip offs and cash and
dash girls, due to the law of attraction.  Of course
we never hear from the guys who get even with the rips.
Though, it would be interesting.
Actually, now that I wrote that, I just remembered two
clients who did get revenge.
This is getting long and off subject.

You provided too much info that, if made public, would have violated posting guidelines.

The post was reviewed by staff as well, and it was felt to be to detailed for general posting.

Any PROVIDERS who want more info should contact this poster VIA EMAIL.

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