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If I'm reading  your post correctly, you've made the decision to offer incall out of the apartment you live in.  While there are providers who do this, you really need to make sure your screening process is rock solid. I'm not trying to scare you but many will tell it's not the greatest setup. Screen poorly and wind up with a client who gets out of hand,  screen poorly and see a newbie who might wind up as a stalker.  Have a neighbor who works during the day, move out, and wind up with a new nosey neighbor, well I think you get my point. Good luck, hope things all work out for you.



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Posted By: AlessandraBailey
Thank you! Awesome ideas!

I already have the place already. Lived in this complex before but moving to a different unit where the people around are all at work during the day so its perfect, but I'm like a girl scout I like to be prepared for all potential situations with a reply lol :)

AlessandraBailey1122 reads

What do you tell people in your "real life" that you do for work?

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VeraCroft948 reads

I have both to balance each other out and to save face :]

But my whole family knows what I do and my friends as well and they ultimately support my safety more so then what I do.

And I have a civvie job that makes it easy for me to "white lie" to people that dont matter

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AlessandraBailey994 reads

Thank you for the reply! And what do you tell or would you tell your neighbours if they asked why you had so many gentlemen friends coming over for just an hour or two?

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VeraCroft886 reads

1. Move to an area that has a decent amount of traffic around the area where seeing that many people go in and out is the normal

2. If you have already moved then just make up some bullshit excuse that you are a sex therapist, sex consultant, match maker, or male fashion consultant...

Or its kind of like if they dont ask, then do not tell....

Watch the flow of traffic you have in and out of your home and certain times, maybe limit your calls per day or try to have longer multi hour calls

Just a couple of suggestions but Im quite sure there are better suggestions out there

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AlessandraBailey735 reads

Thank you! Awesome ideas!

I already have the place already. Lived in this complex before but moving to a different unit where the people around are all at work during the day so its perfect, but I'm like a girl scout I like to be prepared for all potential situations with a reply lol :)

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hiddenhills1355 reads

If I'm reading  your post correctly, you've made the decision to offer incall out of the apartment you live in.  While there are providers who do this, you really need to make sure your screening process is rock solid. I'm not trying to scare you but many will tell it's not the greatest setup. Screen poorly and wind up with a client who gets out of hand,  screen poorly and see a newbie who might wind up as a stalker.  Have a neighbor who works during the day, move out, and wind up with a new nosey neighbor, well I think you get my point. Good luck, hope things all work out for you.



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Posted By: AlessandraBailey
Thank you! Awesome ideas!

I already have the place already. Lived in this complex before but moving to a different unit where the people around are all at work during the day so its perfect, but I'm like a girl scout I like to be prepared for all potential situations with a reply lol :)

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poohdaddy1303 reads

This has nothing to do with your post but it kinda reminded me of what happened to me a few years ago after my divorce. I called a lady to come to my apt but the small complex had no numbers to distinguish them apart. I would let them know, its the apt to the left once you go up the stairs. Well one time the lady went right and the funny thing is the guy told her to come in when she knocked on the wrong door. She let me know later that he took care of her fee and even tipped her. I've always wondered what that guy was thinking to have a woman show up dressed sexy and to steal my date. LOL I mean how the hell did he know what to do? was he thinking, hmmmm i wish a sexy girl would just show up? lol

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travelerone1209 reads

Hey Thanks Man,  That was hilarious.  I haven't been feeling well tonight and that just made me laugh like crazy.  This board can really be fun sometimes.  Thanks again for sharing.

Posted By: poohdaddy
This has nothing to do with your post but it kinda reminded me of what happened to me a few years ago after my divorce. I called a lady to come to my apt but the small complex had no numbers to distinguish them apart. I would let them know, its the apt to the left once you go up the stairs. Well one time the lady went right and the funny thing is the guy told her to come in when she knocked on the wrong door. She let me know later that he took care of her fee and even tipped her. I've always wondered what that guy was thinking to have a woman show up dressed sexy and to steal my date. LOL I mean how the hell did he know what to do? was he thinking, hmmmm i wish a sexy girl would just show up? lol

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azvictoria935 reads

all my family and civie  friends know  what I do  and thankfully  have remained  there for me over the years....  your good friends  do not judge you they except you and love you  regardless .....

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DanishLacey1193 reads

certified personal trainer!

I was one so it makes it very easy to talk about lol :)
If they ask if I will work with them I tell them I am really bad ass and I would hate for it to affect such a wonderful friendship!


great question girlfriend..........

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