San Diego
Although I apprecriate your effort to spare someone the same potential experience, and I speak from experience here; getting irritated, annoyed or feeling disrepected about it helps no one, particularily you.
Just think "next" and enjoy the search 
The only wrinkle is that I get a cab, get on a plane, get a cab and rent a hotel room only for her to back out or NCNS. And even then, anymore, I only get slightly sideways because the places that I visit have lots of options. And the plan "B" ladies have always come thru and we had a great time! Maybe "slightly sideways" sex is better, like make up sex. I don't know.
Also, if you do get backed out on and you explain the reason of short notice to another lady, they can sometimes make the extra effort to see you on short notice. Most ladies like the guys who return and they understand that the extra effort to short notice on their behalf can be seen as considerate and help to make round two or beyond happen.
Good luck in the future!
...it has happened to me in the past and the only thing worse is to have someone run you around for 4 hours only to get stood. Yeah I know I am a idiot 
She has long since disliked me for reasons I can not fathom. Well, I have my suspicions but I doubt it's something as petty as competition. Her sister and I have had great experiences at M&Gs and clients who ask about her aren't told not to see her but told that her reviews are good and if you're interested to go for it! Miz P has long been a source of entertainment and information. I am constantly learning form her!
Thanks doll, and, my sincerest apologies for whatever I did in the past.
If there is any way to make peace I would love to extend my olive branch here.
I hope you have a great weekend everybody!
G