I've noticed that many providers are turning away African Americans in their ads. Does anyone know why? I've been all over the country and have not seen this.
It may just be a stereo type but I know that some ladies have issues a gentleman being to well endowed. Also unfortunately I think racism also is a factor.
I know many do not want the competition because they have a pimp, daddy, wanna be bf who is their manager & takes their $. Some have had a past problem with an AA who attempted to cheat, rob, or physically abuse them during a session. To each their own, but I am no racist, so I will gladly see any true gentlemen regardless of their ethnic heritage. The myth is always in the air that black men have bigger dicks, but that is a lie.
Not all AA's are well endowed. This is a crazy business, and I have been robbed, fought threw an attempted rape, but I never outcast a group of individuals because of 1 bad experience. If your respectful I will see you. African American men feel free to apply within...
Once you go black you never go back! Maybe ladies are scared they will be addicted? Haha! Kidding of course.
A friend of mine once said there are plenty of fish and the same rings true here. If you like someone but they won't see your race, age, religious group or whatever else just move on. Dwelling on something that you can't change does nobody any good. Find someone who wants to see you and you can't go wrong! Jackie L
Sadly, it could be due to the *stereotyping* that's been made over the years of certain races. And sadly, some folks are down right racist. Or their BF/S/O has demanded they not see black men. And it's says a lot about those providers.
But NOT ladies are like that. There are some of us who adore AA men and men of other races.
Posted By: NPM360
I've noticed that many providers are turning away African Americans in their ads. Does anyone know why? I've been all over the country and have not seen this.
I have no problem with AA men as long as they're respectful, clean, and have references. That is what I expect from all the men I see.
Unfortunately, not all think that way. The ones that turn away AA men are probably not worth seeing anyways. Just a thought. I only see that kind of ad from a certain type of provider. Stick with the well reviewed ladies. There are many to choose from on this site. Good luck! xo
Posted By: NPM360
I've noticed that many providers are turning away African Americans in their ads. Does anyone know why? I've been all over the country and have not seen this.
Id never turn away due to race..I Love CHocolate Just as Much as Vanilla! ..ONLY if the reference says things that could be a big turn off would I then decide not to see anyone :
Like all these BEAUTIFUL ladies have said... Race/age/religion/size/age are irrelevant, a true gentleman will always shine through. Bad apples come in all shapes, sizes, and colors. It is unfortunate that some ladies won't see AA men, but really you wouldn't want her to be uncomfortable with you the whole time either. Stick with someone that will appreciate you and enjoy your time together! Good luck sweetheart!
Thanks for the reply! I've seen your ads on BP many times and emailed you once regarding your racial preferences. I just haven't followed through. So many of the ads on BP say "sorry no blacks" that I was just curious about where this sentiment came from. Are all black men treating women poorly in San Diego? The young lady from Vegas with the double IIs just posted that a light skinned black male tried to get over with paying her $2. Any jerk could do that regardless of race. Oh well. Thank you for your positive attitude and have a great week! : )
I actually posted on this subject earlier this year. Im still kind of torn. On the one hand, yes girls should have their preferences. But on the other hand, how can you possible group one ethnicity and say they act the same and will treat you the same. I not sure the best way to approach it either. Some girls dont see black guys but they dont post it on their ad. If I disclose, its easier to say no on the phone. But if I dont and I book, I have had the door shut in my face multiple times and I know I am at least an 8.5 on the ter appearance scale lol. Theres a girl that put no blk men on her ad but I convinced her to see me and of course she wanted me to come back and see her again (probably wont tho). She made up some bs excuse that blk guys can be pimps. I guess the best advice is to disclose and be prepared for alot of rejection. The bright side is that you save money not seeing all the girls you want to c but the downer is that not all options are available to you.
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