Music can have a power effect on your emotions. So how important is music to your session?  
For me, the right music can take an average session and make it a memorable one. I know music is a very personal thing and everyone has their own preference. So Ladies do you play music during your session? If so is it something you like or do you cater it to the gents preference.  

I always play music during sessions and try to play music that I know my counterparts will enjoy although Sometimes I play music based on my own moods as well...  

Although obviously not one of the ladies who were asked, here's my hobbyist's 2 cents. Music sets a mood that can be a plus, negative, or fantastic experience enhancer. One of my ATF's always puts on Sade when we play, since we both love that artist. We slow dance in a close embrace and then make passionate love to it. That's how a session goes from good to perfect for me. Clearly other songs can do likewise depending on one's taste. But yes, it is an important component to the overall experience IMO.

The right music can be wonderful.  The wrong music can be annoying.  The absence of music can be perfectly fine.

Where are good places to download music? Is ITunes the only spot?

I prefer to have music that we both enjoy.  I love old school, so Stevie Wonder, Marvin Gaye, Al Green, & my ATF is Sade these are what I have currently on my iphone.

it plays little into the quality of my time with a lady.

Can't say I always find a connection with some providers choice of songs or music but nevertheless its no big deal.  I'm more interested in other auditory stimulation.  Nothing like dirty talk to keep me focused!  But you know I sometimes wonder if music is used as a rather subtle way of timing a session.  Track # 2: time to get naked; track # 3 BJ time; track # 5 lets get those positions rolling; track # 7 ok time to make him cum; track # 9 lets get him cleaned up and in the shower; track # 10 shows over.  Or am I just being a little too cynical?

Hooray for Pandora!

I've blanked out an entire album. I've said "has that been on the whole time?" (referring to loud music) as I was getting dressed after. Focus like a laser on the important stuff.  

Very important

Music is the language of love ..
So let us have love!!
I prefer what I term ' sexy lounge ' or ' acid jazz ' when engaging in sensual play ...
Wanna try some ??
Kiss me everywhere,
Chloe

Oh boy, do I play music during my dates.....hell yes I let all 40,000+ plus songs randomly play. The good old blues/classic rock, funky soul, jazz.....
some of the best music to make love to.....