I'm wondering if there are some girls who double book and that's why they have the 2 call system. Whoever gets there first gets the worm. I got blown off by a very well known lady who lives north of S.D. and posted about it. I've heard from others who have gone thru the same. I understand that guys will book and then not show up, and that really sucks. But when we take an afternoon off from work, drive 45-1 hour only to sit in our car and dial a # 20 times and then get not one word of a reason why. I guess that's a done deal for me and a few others but it really sucks and you know who you are...

Same thing has happened to me Bud, so I know what you're feeling.  On the other hand, many ladies use the system legitimately...it just helps them to know when you arrive and that you are serious about seeing them.
Just one of the risks we take in this 'hobby' even though it's upsetting when it happens and very inconsiderate of the woman (note I didn't say lady) who does it.