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Help! Someone! What do you do when someone who contacted you, wanting an appointment, lied to you throughout the screening process and was completely rude to you on the phone so you decide not to see them/ignore them? Then you get a nasty email harassing and calling you vulgarities, threatening you physically and saying they are going to spread nasty rumors about you on all of the boards and won't leave you alone.
I have a great circle of friends/clientele who love me and would back me but what do you do when new clients read this stuff and their minds are swayed on something completely false? It just seems like hobbyists have the upper hand in this and can ruin our reputation in an instant-even if it is undeserved, unjustified and false.
I am so upset right now....more saddened and disappointed that there can be so much ugly and negative out there and your "provider career" can be threatened by someone you have never even met.

I would also like to point out....I think this guy is dangerous and slightly off. I believe he is using this blog/GoDaddy website to use as reference to the ladies trying to prove that he is a "legit hobbyist" http://www.unknownhobbyist.com/?page_id=5
I have just notified the FCC about because some emails came from an unsolicited email account which is illegal. Be careful ladies!

-- Modified on 7/13/2011 10:07:20 PM

-- Modified on 7/13/2011 10:18:31 PM

hiddenhills524 reads

Sorry to read about your situation. Do not engage this person whatsoever. Block all his emails.
Once he realizes you've got cut him off, he will move on.  BTW, I was on his blog, I can't imagine any legitimate hobbyist would any attention to anything this individual has to say.

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bill88727 reads

ignore, ignore. The more you respond or recognize him in any way, the more he is encouraged. Stay away! You will have enough good reviews from those of us who love you so that any smart hobbyist will know this guy is nuts. Be safe.

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AlwaysAudra1210 reads

Thank you guys. You guys are right....just glad and grateful I screen well enough to not have let this person through to begin with. I always use my gut intuition as well and I cannot stress to the other ladies how important that is too. If something feels off, funny, uncomfortable.....there's a reason.

Posted By: bill88
ignore, ignore. The more you respond or recognize him in any way, the more he is encouraged. Stay away! You will have enough good reviews from those of us who love you so that any smart hobbyist will know this guy is nuts. Be safe.

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dude19501601 reads

Agree with above responses and I will say that if you ever, EVER, need anyone to vouch for you I will be first in line. I do think ignoring is better than the alternatives at this point.

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Vivianna Love936 reads


Don't have your number out there!  

Posted By: AlwaysAudra
Help! Someone! What do you do when someone who contacted you, wanting an appointment, lied to you throughout the screening process and was completely rude to you on the phone so you decide not to see them/ignore them? Then you get a nasty email harassing and calling you vulgarities, threatening you physically and saying they are going to spread nasty rumors about you on all of the boards and won't leave you alone.
I have a great circle of friends/clientele who love me and would back me but what do you do when new clients read this stuff and their minds are swayed on something completely false? It just seems like hobbyists have the upper hand in this and can ruin our reputation in an instant-even if it is undeserved, unjustified and false.
I am so upset right now....more saddened and disappointed that there can be so much ugly and negative out there and your "provider career" can be threatened by someone you have never even met.

I would also like to point out....I think this guy is dangerous and slightly off. I believe he is using this blog/GoDaddy website to use as reference to the ladies trying to prove that he is a "legit hobbyist" http://www.unknownhobbyist.com/?page_id=5
I have just notified the FCC about because some emails came from an unsolicited email account which is illegal. Be careful ladies!

-- Modified on 7/13/2011 10:07:20 PM

-- Modified on 7/13/2011 10:18:31 PM

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