Looking for a GFE experience with provider with patience and understanding for the needs of older (48) gentelman with ED issues left over from failed marriage.

I am descent looking, clean and a nice guy, who has been embarrased by not being able to get hard with a provider who seemed a bit- shall we say- less than understanding of my situation.

I have read all the reviews here, and there are many who might fit the bill, but I need a little advice to help overcome my problem.

Any ideas as to who I can contact? Prefer North County- incall/ outcall ok.

Thanks.

Maybe Dream or Summertyme (although Summer isn't 760 anymore).  Either would have the patience and attitude needed.  Sedona technically lives in North County and I've read that sometimes she has inexhaustible patience (a 40-min BJ...) but also that she can get impatient if a guy takes "too long."  That would only make your situation worse.  Ginger and Stephanie also get impatient with limp dicks.  Jenni is totally reliable and if you approached her in the right way, she'd be a gamer.

Who else?  Jenny Sue and Lily June can probably accomplish anything but each are so hard to get hold of, they may exist only in North County mythology.  I'd avoid the 20-something crowd, other than Dream (Kali, Amber, Haylee Bangg, etc.).  They have decent reviews, but you're looking for someone over and above the ordinary.  I'm sorry not to be of more help.  Given the choices, I recommend contacting Jenni.  She responds to every e-mail and picks up her calls if she can.  I think you could descretely discuss this issue with her without getting into the specific "services" taboo.  Like I said she's a gamer as well as being, like you, a decent person.

Don't feel comfortable laying it out on the board, but you'll find some excellent mature providers if you do a search and really read the juicy details.

xo
Elise

But her 'what's a girl to do' thread had a chilling effect on my enthusiasm for her.  I guess, in fairness, I must say from personal experience that she CAN meet your specific requirements (other than being in N. County).  Patient, expereienced, tenacious, sexy.  But, as she says in her thread, it's one, two three strikes you're out of the o l d  b a l l  g a m e.

It's a free country, but why invest $1200 and 4+ hours in finding a compatible someone who has an inflexible policy of dumping you after three visits?

Better to try Jenni or Suzanne, IMHO.







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The reference to me on this subject is complete and utter bullshit. I cannot think of one single occasion in my entire career that this has EVER been the case. In fact I am a hugely nurturing person who gets a great deal of satisfaction out of helping anyone overcome anykind of mental or physical inability to fully enjoy getting their funky groove on.

You are a Blasphemous liar and I challenge you to send me a private e-mail to describe the event that makes you think you are qualified to make this statement.

Ummm...did someone mention Ginger here?  Not sure why you're offended, or by what.

disrespects God.  Whores aren't gods right?

(They're goddesses, I know....).

I'm confused, not trying to start a fight with you ginger.  

Peace.

I don't want to be anyone's girlfriend.  Period.  Which is why I wrote the thread MEANT FOR YOU AND YOU ALONE.  I was tired of you blowing up my phone and email account after I repeatedly told you I didn't want to date you out on the town.

Time spent is that.  You weren't getting the message.  I didn't owe you anything except to be a sweetheart while we were together.

I knew that you would start trash talking me as soon as I stopped dating you, but I just don't like guys that do drugs and treat women the way that you do.  I'm not a lady that will be controlled.  Find someone else.

Dating via the escort ads is meant to be for the moment.  Get that through your head or get professional help like Ginger suggested in the other thread.

I'm certain there is a good reason why STAFF has banned you three times now.

Elise

Talk about mood swings.  I was the cat's meow until I figured out he couldn't hear the word "no". He just doesn't understand boundaries whatsoever.

Either he's on more serious drugs than the ganga, or he needs some pharmaceuticals.

Scary, huh?  See why four dates was my limit?  
E

and she's correct. No matter what name he's using, we recognize him.

And there is nothing that validates his statement about my 'impatience'. Quite the opposite, actually.

He certainly has worn out ours.

ah, yes.  Sorry...missed his reference.

You must have missed the original question.  Balancing asked what ladies he should see not what ladies he should not see.

Why would you needlessly make disparaging remarks about the providers that you feel he should not see?

It appears painfully obvious that you wanted to slam a number of providers before giving Balancing your answer.  That type of post tends to reflect upon your credibility and makes me believe that Elise is correct in her statement.  I have not met most of the ladies that you mention in your post but having met Sedona I do not get the feeling that she is the impatient type.

Some of the ladies were rightfully irritated with your post but that was probably your intention from the beginning.

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