Regarding recent Kayla and Mindey reviews.  I've tried to contact half dozen times each with no response at all (heck, maybe it's just me?).  Now two recent reviews??  Another VIP PM'd me and he told me he knows one personally and he hasn't been able to reach for several months either and is wondering about recent reviews, yeah me too.  Has anyone else gotten ANY response, email or return call, from either in past weeks?

buddy55

The ladies in question or guys who know them might clear up this particular mystery, but it does come up for me sometimes that I never hear back from a provider I have seen before, not even a "sorry, I was out of town" or something. I tend not to keep that up long, given the choices locally.

It makes me wonder, though, as this sort of message comes up regularly. There was a thread in February about how many customers providers see, and it surprised me how low a number it was for those ladies who wrote in. The reasons made sense. Is that what goes on sometimes, that it takes so few customers to fill out a lady's dance card, the others get ignored? It's obvious why a lady wouldn't want to tell very many customers she's not that interested in them. Is that why some providers seem to disappear? I may not be in the top tier of customers, but I'm sure I'm at least in the tier where they would see me if they need the money for most ladies. So far that's been enough for me.

If it ever gets even more like real life, though, I quit. I know lots of women who will disrespect me for free.

A recent post said that Kayla was taking some time off.  So I'm not surprised you're not getting a response.  She's done this in the past and returned when she's ready.  I don't know anything about Mindey.  

About the reviews; I'd be more inclined to believe them if they came from members with some history of reliability.  As things stand I have to consider the possibility that they're phony.  Hard to tell for sure.

I saw that post that she (Kayla) was gone, but if she is back, do provders get upset when repeatedly emailed?  I'm smart enough not to (call) repeatedly leaving messages that clog up her voice mail but I've already emailed 4-5 times.  Anyone believe I should keep trying or is this going to really piss her off? (Oh god, I hope she doesn't think I'm spamming her)

buddy55

But I don't think there's a one size fits all answer.  Some providers I know never check their email, or are several weeks behind.  I guess for them, posting an email address is in the "it seemed like a good idea at the time" category.

Other providers get so much email that they don't have time to keep up and delete it after a few days whether they've responded or not.
I know because one or two have posted that here.  It would be fine to email them again.

Seems to me that a provider who both
i) doesn't answer email
          and
ii) gets POd by multiple emails
should just go on your forget 'em and move on list.

just my 2 cents here but, we have to remember that for many of the ladies they receive hundreds of emails a day, not many of them are from 'pre-qualified buyers'  most of them are spam as few of the webdesigns I have seen employ the techniques that prevent webbots from harvesting their email addresses from their ads.  Once an ad goes up their spam increases, more ads this increases exponentially.

My suggestion, keep trying.  You may want to just send another email every other week until you get a response.  Many ladies just flush their email inbox periodically and have enough repeat business that they only need to 'audition' new clients very rarely or to fill in weak scheduling.

After about 6 or 8 attempts to contact someone I either know or someone new I will throw in the towel and move on however, there are just too many ladies out there who do want new clients.

--Marty