Not just dating but something on-going. Give this some thought. Not just any provider because there are many types. But the drug free, non-flakey, on the ball type. Perhaps someone you would date in civie life, if they had a different profession. What you would see of it may be phone calls and returning emails and thats about it. Would you be jealous? Feel quility or bad, because you wished she did something else? Or could you see it solely as a profession? Inquiring minds........
You need to define "relationship" a little. I wouldn't mind dating a provider casually and just be her friend. But to have a serious committed relationship is something I can't see myself doing as long as she's still in the business. There's significant trust issue involved here dating a provider on a serious level. The thought of having that sort of relationship crossed my mind once but I'm glad it didn't happen.
Yes. But I wouldn't want to. I would be a friend but having a choice I wouldn't start a relationship. It just seems like it wouldn't be prudent. It would take two really strong people to make it work. Finding two secure people that are romanticly compatible is hard enough. Let alone throwing in the careers.
My friends who are spoiled & spoil me know me very well. We consider ourselves to be in a mutually benefitial relationship, so yes you can! Now committed is a diffrent story. Many of my friends are married, and I do not mind at all because I am very busy 2! Thanks 4 sharing!
Lots of providers are in successful relationships. Quite a few are married and have families.
A lot more providers than you realize are educated and quite "mormal" women (or TS in my case). While certainly the ghetto types often have a variety of personal issues, there are a lot of "good" girls "working" their way through college or raising families, and not sucking the money through a needle.
With gas heading out of sight, homes that cost 800 grand and cars that cost 40+, unless a gent earns 10-15G a month most families can't suport a middle class lifestyle anymore, so some women choose to "work" for $300 an hour instead of 300 a week, often with the support of their SO.
On the other hand many single providers have trouble finding and keeping relationships with single men. Often it's financial, the guy wants her to quit and be Suzy homemaker. In other cases a girl gets used to being independent and isn't interested in submitting to a man's direction.
And escorts see a LOT of the negative side of men so some like men for what they are good for - money and sex, an occasional night out, and maybe for fixing the sink - and then they want the gent to go home afterward... (giggle)
As a provider who's in a successful, loving and supportive relationship with another provider, for such relationships to succeed long term I think the parties have to be quite secure in their own sexuality. They have to be able to separate "business life " from "real life" and to not be jealous.
Especially the guys. You have to be secure in your "manhood" so to speak and willing to be friends with your partner, but to let her run the parts of her life that she needs to, and to enjoy the time you do have together.
I think the best thing for anyone getting involved in such an arrangement is to talk with others in similar circumstances.
Anyway, that's my opinion for waht it's worth... good hunting to everyone!
Thanks 4 sharing! You are very informed & I agree. Yes, if your a provider you do need friends who can relate 2 u! Trust, Honesty & NO JEALOUSY!!! LOL XoXo
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