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SpoogeBob 8 Reviews 5839 reads
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What's with incall providers not having condoms available when you arrive (usually the younger ones)?  When I walk through the door, I don’t want to hear the girl ask me if I brought any condoms!  …”Um, no… but I brought you a stack of money instead, so how about having the foresight and decency to have at least 1 f’ing condom on hand!”  Is that really so much to ask?  

This has happened to me more than once.  After the first time, I started bringing condoms with me.  However, on the odd occasion when I didn’t have time to grab a pack beforehand, the girl would end up being “out of stock”.  So, it’s either a lousy hand job, or I have to get back in my car and go buy some Trojans.  Unfortunately, it’s usually me just leaving since I don’t have extra time to waste and I’m seldom in the mood for hand play.

What the hell are these girls thinking?  I’m just coming over to chat?

Anyone else run into this?

I've heard about it but I've never run into it myself, and I go mostly for incall.  I've seen it mentioned in reviews.  I'm just lucky, I guess.  

The girls you describe will either learn better in a hurry or be out of business in a hurry.

HobbyAdvocate5977 reads

they are avoiding sex altogether and feel safer doing a HJ.

Or..you are not choosing well.

Don't get me wrong I am not defending their behaviour but perhaps there are 2 things at play here:

1- Not having condoms they are trying to avoid FS and steering clients to the HJ or self service route.... try saying "well all I wanted was a BBBJTCIM" and see how fast the condoms appear.

2- Perhaps the ladies are thinking without condoms on the premises they can skate a little easier if LE shows up because they can argue that they weren't selling sex because if they were they would have condoms.  
(LE does make strict accounting of how many condoms and what kinds a lady has not only in her hotel room but also her car when a bust is made, at least in the areas to the north of SD, not sure of your local LE tactics & practices but presuming they are similar)

Just bring some condoms with you, find the kind that fits just right, a well fitting condom with properly used lube will feel almost as good as BBFS (see threads elsewhere on TER, tried to provide a link but ran out of time)

--Marty

Believe it or not some of these girls wont have sex with a guy who "looks" a certain way or someone whom she's extremely unattracted to.  I've spoken to more than one who tells me they will make any excuse under the sun to avoid sex including the "im on my period" excuse which i've seen a few guys mention recently.... just to avoid having to have sex with the guy.

Can you blame them?  They're human too and I know for a fact some of these guys show up looking like smelly disgusting beasts (more than one girl has used a similar description).  

Saying they don't have a condom may just be a polite way of avoiding.

At least, that has been my experience.  I always have my own little 'bag of tricks' that I bring with me especially, since I generally do outcalls.  Things like condoms, lube, toothbrush and paste, toys, etc.  Must have been my Boy Scout training lol.

EA

For the most part, although I love the tight, lithe, supple, young bodies, I have stopped seeing the younger, newer providers. I have found thet the more older, mature ladies are not only much better, but in general, know us guys much better and just what pleases us. There is a lot to say for experience and skill. What is the old adage,..."age and trechery will outlast youth and vitality anyday!"

or maybe they see you and are thinking no way i'd screw that guy even for money. just kidding dude..

Thanks for the replies.

I think it comes down to the girls being young and little scatter-brained.  The couple of times I've left to get some condoms, the girls have provided full service on my return as promised.

Like I said, I usually carry my own.  It's just been a coincidence that the several times I've forgotten to bring condoms, the girl doesn't have any either.

I really don't believe anything "sneaky" is going on.  Just inexperience.

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