The other day I set up an incall with a provider whom I mistook for a reliable one here in town (same name/general appearance).  After she showed me to her somewhat messy bedroom, she left the room not once but twice and I could hear a male voice in the background whom she said was her roommate.

I was getting increasingly nervous when I noticed a spoon with a brown substance (can you say H?) on it, and I got the hell out of Dodge.  I've chosen not to write a review about this provider, but the one piece of advice I can give is to make sure you're dealing with a highly rated person ...  I let my other head get the best of me on this one as I had mistakingly thought it was was someone else and hadn't done my research enough.

Be careful out there guys!

Heck, I just don't understand why don't write reviews in any case at all.  Just because a girl may know who you are, (like me) doesnt mean we're going to smear you or come after you.

Sometimes we NEED the feedback, and if you are diplomatic when you write the review, I think it's usually a good thing to get information.

(You don't need to say you saw heroin, you can say you saw a spoon with a brown lump on it that scared you and you left!)  You did it here quite nicely....   The old Knowledge Is Power deal.

To my way of thinking it's much better to have it out there for her response than for it to be innuendo and rumour now that the world is going to PM you for the information backchannel.

Just my opinion, but what do I know?
xoxo
Elise

I must agree. I thought the whole point to this board was to help keep like minded people from making all the same mistakes, Be it, exposing ripoffs, to finding new treasures, to ways to avoid Jonny Law. I would think a possibly dangerious situation would be someting we all would like to be informed of. Isn't that what taking one for the team is all about?

...there are girls who may give bad service and there are girls who may be so street smart they actually may scare the hell out of you! Better to keep your mouth shut and move on.

I realize this type of information may be helpful to other hobbyist, yet I just don't need the personal hassles if she and her cronies decide to return to my place.

Example...I had an encounter in my home (I regularly see girls in my home as I like to be the host and I live alone), the more this woman opened her mouth, the more I wanted her OUT!
We started talking about anal service and I laughed about never being offered this type of service because of my size. She then set out to be my first. Part of the conversation was also her telling me about her boyfriend cheating on her with other MEN and how it hurt her feelings...
Like hell if she was going to be my first. She also talked about how her and her girlfriends write reviews for each other to get work.

YES! All very important information to share, yet I think I would finger myself and open some shit into my world to share it with others.

I am quite choosy in whom I see. Yet I maybe get fooled more than I would like…

Hope this makes sense…

DF

I agree with you Elise, but...you are looking at this from a rational perspective with the best interests of your long-term business in mind, and folks with heroin spoons laying around their apartment are frequently not super rational and rarely care about their long-term business prospects.  At least thats what my limited but vivid exposure to folks in that situation has taught me.  He's probably better off staying "under the radar" on this one.

I guess my last comment would be, If information isn't to be shared, Why post it at all? Why not just stay " under the radar"? I'm not tring to be a dick, but that to me is almost like yelling fire in a theatre.

One other point is that TER is becoming more of a social oriented, knitting circle, coffee clache' environment and moving away from the review oriented information source.

When a girl is new, people question the girl and her reviews. If a reviewer is new, because he has no history-his reviews are suspect. If a girl is established, any reqviews that deviate from the standard are automatically labeled as fraud or the reviewer is just creating trouble.

One of the big complaints on the board has been about screening requirements and the trade-off between privacy and security. Some of the well reviewed ladies on this board maintain that they discard info after they verify the client. Yet there are stories about girls "Black Books" and old emails, etc. Also, when bad reviews are written, if it was a legitimate encounter, the ladies always seem to "remember" the meetings. Memory is interesting.

Another issue has been the LE debate. TER cannot be found interfering with LE investigations and posting information that "outs" undercover is not protected  as "free speech". While LE won't go after you or I as individuals, targeting TER is worth their time. From LE' perspective, if they can nail TER on anything, they shut down a source of "immoral" information and improve their (LE) effectiveness.

MOSTLY because this information will get backchanneled without the girl being able to come to her defense.

If it is out in the open, " I saw a spoon with a lump of brown stuff in it, it scared me, nevermind a male roommate was present in the house during the session and that had already made me uncomfortable"....

Well, if that is written far enough out, close to the three month limit, and you write that you came from Quebec and your first provider cancelled on you and she was a doll to see you last minute...

You're not going to be identified, and SHE will get the chance to, publicly, here on the forum, say that was a lump of fudge she keeps there because she is afraid she'll go into diabetic coma or whatever....

If it's dangerous, or not what you thought from what prior reviewers wrote, write something. Don't be afraid.  Be it a freak, or a girl like me that has your information but has ethics that wouldn't permit me to hurt you even if you say something hurtful about me in a review, I think that if you're going to participate, do so fully, or just don't even mention it on the board at all.

But what do I know?

xoxo
Elise

you can alter a review enough that a girl won't know who you are.
don't say it happened at your house. say you were at the Hilton in from Detroit. and you're just talking about a girl that has a bf and talked too much.  was she offering you BB anal?

I mean, really, go back and check the girls that you've done and check the guys that they've done and see how far back you can go before you've done a girl that's done a guy that's done a tranny... AND THAT'S the ones that REVIEW..

You play this game, that happens.  We all fuck everyone that everyone else fucks.  We don't like to think about it, BUT IT HAPPENS.

Either deal with it, or get monogamous.

No, you really don't make any sense to me.  Now, if she grabbed her kit and tied one off and shot up in front of you, we'd have something to discuss.

P.S. Dumbfounded was a REALLY good second alias!!! LOL
xoxo
Elise