This isn't a one sided hobby ...
If it was none of us would be here

If we are to truly understand each other it behooves us to get answers from both sides!

So what makes me not want to see a gent?
1. No Patience. I am a career woman who runs 3 businesses and works for a consulting firm(4 jobs). I have limited availability and won't see a gent if he won't be patient. Work before play in my book ... This hobby is my sexual fetish outlet not my income.
2. No Manners. If a man is not a gentleman on any level I will not put myself in a position to be treated poorly.
3. A negotiator. I understand that my donation does not fit into every budget. If you can't afford me then look for a lady who you can afford. No need to tell me I am crazy - I am worth every penny I ask for and I guarantee my fees.
4. Won't screen. My health and safety come first and I will not see a patron that cannot offer a way to verify whom they claim to be and that they are not a threat to my person.
5. A bad reference from another provider. If she says the patron was disrespectful or harmful I will not see that person.
6. Wants less than one hour. What I offer takes time to give and in a rush session I don't feel you can fully get the whole experience with me. I am completely genuine and don't script my sessions so you never know what to expect.

Ladies ...
Anything different observations?

Kissez n hugs to all of you,
Chloe Wilde
The Best There Is.

I want to see everyone who can supply reference information that is verifiable (IE the person verifying can also be verified as being a real and active provider such as through TER reviews or other sites).



I have never had issues with people negotiating my donation or time -- if the price isn't rite I mention my massage options for the same time but lower rate than the GFE. I have also been lucky to not have had any rudeness except the odd religious email telling me I will be burning in hell.



I have only had to ask two clients to not communicate with me: failure to offer adequate screening info after MANY emails and the other for requesting unsafe activities. Everyone else I'm willing to try to work things out with.



One thing that makes me CAUTIOUS about seeing someone is when they have used a known bareback provider as a reference or have reviewed them well. I always ensure my activities with that gent are more careful than usual (just in case he got that special treatment that she "only does with him"). So guys: careful who you see, it could effect who you have the potential to see and your experience. The same is true for users who have seen providers I deem unsafe or unstable. I exercise caution and often won't see those gents at my incall.



So that's my personal perspective.
Capre Diem!

Thanks for the input!! Much appreciated
But I'm a little confused by your explanation ...
You said you want to see everyone.
Then in the body of your post you describe your limitations.
So which is is?
You want to see every one or there are some reasons why you won't see someone?
Mwuah,
Chloe

I dislike boys who pm here on TER several times, but have never taken a few moments to refer to my personal website to learn more about me.  I require reservations & a 50% deposit to book.  I know not many providers do, so I only see serious gentlemen who can respect me & my time.  I respect your valuable time.

Just because a provider has whitelisted, or blacklisted you does not make you a good, or bad guy.  I like to, do my own homework, so I read the reviews here to see if there maybe a connection.  If the reviews are accurate, or they offer services I do not provide, like BBBJ, or CIM I will share with the guy that I do not offer those services they usually receive.  If they did not, do their own homework by looking at my TER profile they are not for me!


Sharing is caring & $ is not everything.  If there was no chemistry the 1st time chances are dparks won't fly on a repeat visit.

She'd like to see everybody, but she won't see folks who are dangerous. No confusion here.

What a champ

Yes she says she wants to see everyone but tthere is a distinction that she will not see some people so therefore she will not see everyone
You're sweet to answer for her though!!
Peace,
C

Youre smart and eloquent so why the attitude?  Talking down to hobbyists and providers alike - a new business strategy?

I'm not about to parse the comments of any provider.  It just seems pretty common sense who GK will and will not see.  Not much of a mystery here.  If you've got a reputation for being unsafe, go play with someone else.

I have no attitude darling. You must be reading more into my words than there is.
I haven't talked down to anyone.  
Unless asking questions for clarity and responding to your post is considered that ...
I have said nothing untoward to either provider or hobbyist.
I try to be kind to all - I cannot change how you take my words.
Peace,
C
 

But the question posed was what makes you not see someone.
And her answer was everybody.
Then she had exceptions, so I asked if that means she won't see everybody.
Is asking for clarification such a bad thing?
Peace,
C

Here is is again:

ou don't want to see everyone.
You have restrictions just like any of us.  
Plain and simple. I am and was just clarifying.
You don't want to see someone if they won't screen or play unprotected.
Two very good points for why a gal wouldn't see a patron.
I'm proud of you for standing up for your principles!
Keep up the good work you do for so many lucky gents
X

Guess saying "I WANT TO SEE EVERYONE, Period" still wasn't clear enough.
Please explain what this reply was referencing in terms of my restrictions

Ok, so it WASN'T just me reading the replies as nitpicking... Thanks, whew.
Hugs

ou don't want to see someone if they won't screen or play unprotected.  
Two very good points for why a gal wouldn't see a patron.  
I'm proud of you for standing up for your principles!  
Keep up the good work you do for so many lucky gents  
X

Your response has contradictions so I asked for clarification.
That my dear is not nit picking, just honest curiosity.
XO
C

Oh, not this thread, I was watching out the window and saw to felines going at it.  Some tomcat tried to step in but he got a couple of whacks and ran away.  Nothing better, especially as they walk away and still let out those crazy moans of "you b&%#@".  Pretty good stuff...

1 - I mentioned that I require screening and offer gentlemen ways to screen if they don't have references. They can then choose if they want to see me by following the directions for other screening or not. So the ball then goes into their court and it becomes THEIR decision on seeing me.

refer here  

Easy, Peasy, Japaneasy Oh and Great Question!

feel like its pretty easy to make an appointment for some playtime with me, and that I have taken the time to give easy instructions on my website on how to see me so that its no mystery how to get your foot in the door, even if you are new and have never tried this before...