Have you ever had the unfortunate suspicion after a date, that, in a moment when you were away from your clothes, the provider may have gone through your wallet?

Just recently after a great date (who shall remain nameless), I noticed on the walk to my car that my wallet was unmistakenly in a pant pocket where I never put it. Nothing was missing, but still, it was a letdown to think what was going on while I was in the shower after our hot session.

I've let the experience go without question and have not written a review of the girl who has a good reputation (again, nothing was taken). But I'm curious if others have experienced this. In addition, what would the motive be? (I don't want to think the unthinkable with her). Do you fellow hobbyists leave your wallets at home? I believe that's the way to go from now on.

It happened to me in TJ.  A chica actually stole 20 bucks from me while I was taking a shower.  I did not say anything to her, though.

leave my wallet along wih my watch and any extra cash in the trunk of my car. It removes anything that might tempt her and I don't have the cash in hand if I'm tempted to extend the date. Who knows why she went thru your wallet. Maybe you said something that made her want to prove your identity?

Don't take anyting other than an envelope with the cash or just the cash in your pocket.  I leave my watch in the car as well.  Why risk it!  I don't trust myself after a hot session.  I might just walk out because of the lack of blood in my brain and leave my wallet, watch, keys, etc. behind.  So with that being said, leave it in the car while the blood is not filling up Mr. Happy!!

i leave everything in the car even the car keys. have keyless entry. i only take Iash.D and some c

Go in with nothing but cash and keys, no phone, no
id

you may want to check with your credit card carriers to make sure there are no unauthorized charges. I know we don't want to think these things about our favorite providers, particularly if you feel a real connection, but it is an illegal business they (and we) are involved in. Some girls may feel credit card fraud is just a small step up.

I agree with LVP, Leave the wallet in the car and your extra money too. Just not worth the risk.

cc fraud is illegal,at least "entertaining" holds some legitimacy, cc fraud would hold none, no one could respect that, so how would that be a step up?

Call it paranoia or whatever you like, but I still park a couple of blocks away, and ONLY carry the cash I need. I do this with ATF's I've seen for 10 years and new contacts. No matter how you paint it every time you venture out in this hobby you're susceptible. Of course this is all a fantasy anyway. . . and their are many ways of being robbed!

...but do what everyone else said. You don't need your wallet, watch, phone, etc to serviced so DON'T BRING IT!!!!

To answer your question; NO, this has never happened t me even when I was a noob. Regardless of the reviews and the number of visits I have, I never bring anything more than the required items.

This shows the stupidity of youth....I once had a provider steal several hundred dollars from my wallet. I discovered it after she left. I went chasing after her & her girlfriend in their car. It involved a chase for about 10 minutes. I was in a rental car & "bumped" her car a couple of times. She finally stopped and rolled down her window. I pulled up & she threw the money out the window....and then sprayed me with mace. I got the cash back but was very lucky. It could have been a gun instead of mace. It also showed me I do not want to mess around with mace!!!

Better late than never, I guess. The advice is very welcomed and appreciated. The thought that someone I had a connection with would jeopardize that good relationship during a trusted moment, is unfortunate for the both of us.

Since no harm seems to have happen, I'm letting the issue go without conflict. But of course, I won't be returning to her and will invest my date dough elsewhere. Thanks again for the pointers, TER.