Looking back on 2015, I realize it's the first year since maybe 2010 that I have not met a new FBSM girl. Spent the first half of the year meeting 6 new escorts. One became a regular, two others worthy of repeats, and the remaining three were nice but for one reason or another, I haven't tried to re-connect.  

For 2016, I resolve to meet at least 3 new FBSM girls by July 1.

Anyone else have goals for 2016?

It's nearing the time for me to depart this arena and hopefully not need to return.

That's mine, for better or worse.

before my ex-wife takes it in court...

seriously though, i am compiling a "to do" list of ladies i want to meet... including several here in san diego.

all i need is cash!!

to the bank and they give you back cash!  Problem solved!

may seem unusal for me.  Lol

Like many, I was introduce to the hobby through FBSM, but once I moved on the seeing FS escorts, I have not had the desire to play in the FBSM arena anymore.  My question is, "What do you think you get from that experience that seems to make it a priority for you that you wouldn't get more of from a FS escort?"

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I've got an idea there: Sometimes you want to be more passive and relaxed and let the lady do "all" the work.  I think of it as similar to a geisha girl experience where the lady just works you over and over and you merely grunt your approval from time to time......

Shiatsu massage at a legit (no happy ending) Japanese spa, I don't have any trouble letting the masseuse/masseur do all the work while I turn to Jelly, but for some reason, when there is a sexual component, my egalitarian nature kicks in and I want to be much more of a participant.  Maybe I'm just weird that way.  Lol

Good question. Why pay for something you can do yourself?

Well let’s first specify that I’m talking about FBSM, not a rub and tug. One can debate the nuance, but that’s another discussion. I will make one big distinction in that I gravitate toward providers who work from a residential property (condo/apartment/home).  A HE massage in a commercial space is not my idea of erotic fun. The second distinction I’ll make is that I seek an interactive FBSM (not a passive experience as another poster suggested).

While I don’t claim to be an expert (I’ve probably experienced about a dozen providers of both FS and FBSM). Several have graced San diego’s top 10 at one time or another. I have noted some reasons for clinging to my fondness of FBSM (in no particular order):

FBSM providers tend to be a little more open on a first meeting and beyond. With a few exceptions, FS girls are playing a role and it’s more obvious than with my FBSM encounters. As many people have noted, a connection with the provider is highly desired, and IMHO, easier to come by with FBSM. Maybe it’s the pace when you start with a back rub vs jumping into the GFE mode. Maybe it’s just the nature of the business.  

Cost. An hour of high quality nude FBSM with mutual enjoyment might run $150-$200; whereas, with an indi FS provider, you’re looking at $300-$600. More bang for the buck.

I actually enjoy a good HJ. It’s safe uncovered fun. Find the right provider (one who can take you to the edge over and over again) and it rivals, if not exceeds covered FS.  

There’s something to be said for a tease. Harkening back to High School days maybe. Lots of fondling, body to body heat, but not crossing the line. Maybe she will someday…

All that said, I have no plans to stop seeing my regular FS girls, touring favorites, or the occasional new experience. I’m a sucker for a great ad, especially with unaltered selfies.  
 

Thanks for your insightful perspective.  You have given me food for thought.  Maybe I will try it again and look at like you do.  I like your thoughts about going repeatedly to the edge.  I guess I was seeing inexperienced massage providers, because they seemed more interested in getting OVER the edge as quickly as possible.  Of course, in those days, I was not yet a TER member, so I imagine the good ones can be sorted out through the reviews here.  Thanks again.

i always go fs, but for this 62 year old fart that means lots of laying on my back and letting the lady give me hj bbbj and cg.

also some finger banging on my part.  but i'm pretty lazy lol

Gia Zanne - busty blonde cheerleader personality and bubbly good times! Trained CMT
Angel Cassidy - former adult film starlet now offering sensual massage with great reviews!
Gamby in north county - she is super sexy and fun fun fun and a squirter! Trained CMT

I know these three personally and can say with certainty they will rock your FBSM world!

Amen to that! I was lucky enough to play with Gia and Goldie. What a treat!!

Roxy not Roxanne gives as great massage

Isabella Madison gives a great FBSM (she also has some videos). You can't go wrong with Goldie...she's incredible.