I suggest you learn to use all the resources at your disposal on this site rather than asking for suggestions from total strangers.There are a few here that will certainly lead you down the wrong path. If you have trouble figuring it all out you can ask a question on the newbie board. That's what it's there for. If you're just starting out, go with ladies with alot of reviews that appeal to your personal tastes. If you still have questions about a particular person, send one of her recent reviewers a PM and ask questions. You may not get a response due to several reasons but it's worth a try. The bottom line is you need to get VIP status  one way or the other so you can access all the tools available here so you don't have to depend on anyone other than yourself. One more thing. Read and participate on the discussion board. If you must ask for advice or recommendations you can learn alot about who you can or cannot trust by interacting with other members there. Good luck.
NM