How can a newbie remain shy around that?  Hmm I'm kind of new at this, but..

Have you looked at this board? If not, I suggest you do, you'll find it in the TER general boards drop down window. Next you might want to consider getting VIP membership for a month, so you can read the juicy details of the reviews. I would recommend you see a provider for an hour, with the option of adding a second hour, which you would need to discuss with her before the date. Low volume providers shouldn't have a problem with this. Remember you're buying her time

Thanks for the reply.

What do I like in a lady? Hmm... my ideal provider would be a pale-skinned Irish girl, cute in a bookish way (not really into the "glamorous supermodel" type, personally), beautiful natural breasts... intelligent, quirky, friendly and gentle.

Anything in that ballpark would be awesome.

Why are you lonely?
SD has some of the finest women in the Country with amazing personalities and insatiable appetites that will blow you away.

I wish you luck with your quest and if you need any direction or company feel free to PM me!

Ciao!
Eyva

Call me!

I am only seeing limited people but I am avail. to discerning gentlemen! I am mature but lovely, so please read my reviews!  I am also massage and Tantra trained! Happy Holidays everyone!

Let's get back to the practical.  How much money can you spend?
Most of the ladies responding here are lovely, but not lower priced.  Is $500/hr in your budget? Is it in your pocket?  Some are more.

My guess is no, especially at your age you'll want to come to a provider often.  Try one hour at first.
Get a VIP membership you're going to do a lot of research.  Don't rely on the numbers in the reviews.  As far as looks are concerned, if they don't show their face keep going.   You don't want to arrive with $100's and have her not be what you want.  Tell the provider you're new, but make sure she has many good reviews here.   Find one you can start emailing for a few times, then calling a couple times.  You'll be more at ease with her, she will know you a little better and the fact she's taking the time to write and talk indicates she may be more patient.  

As far as looks for price go, if you have trouble finding her here, look in LA.  It has a huge selection and because of the numbers, you see more faces.

Important.  To avoid arrest, stay with somebody with many (at least 5) TER reviews. STAY WITH A TER PROVIDER

Go to the ISO board and post.  Many providers require references from other providers that have seen you.  Three choices:  1. find one who doesn't, that keeps getting harder, but can be done.  2. Join P411 that screens you via your work--the last thing I do because A. I don't want to be in a data base and B, providers put in all kinds of info about you for other providers. C. There is a movement to clean up prostitution by arresting the men eg. prop 35 that may lead to access to such data bases to the police.
It is law, it is only Temporarily being Restrained from going into force. This includes other companies as well.   3. Go with one of the ladies who have offered  from this or an OC or LA board, they have committed themselves.  They know you don't have a prior provider and still will see you.

Finally, at the last minute despite all the anxiety, you'll find the equipment works fine.

What you want.  For instance,  ISO Provider for shy guy etc.  Though I go with  ISO of experienced newbie friendly provider (and add any particular qualifications  25-30 c cup looks like missbliss etc)