What I need can't be found easily on the VIP side.  When  I visited SD last year, I was a total newbie to the hobby.  Over the past year, I have developed a taste for a gal who has a definite plan in mind.  She knows she is better than most other gals and wants to get down to work and take me to the promise land.  She will entertain my thoughts, but for only a moment knowing in the end, what is on her menu is so far above my fantacies.  I need to know who that gal is.