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That is totally natural. Here's my realization, which includes changing my personal life such that I can date in the 'real world" just lately (no details):

Biologically the males job is to make the females environment perfect and safe when mating... further he will fend off other males and make sure offspring is his and protected.  It's the beauty of nature... and sadly most have become disconnected from it.

Today "perfect environment" means fast cars, big homes, and bling... sadly what gets passed on to kids is the emotional state of the adult... including during sex, pregnancy, and of course development.  If you think about it this is quite a statement about certain types of entertainment including {violent} movies and certain types of porn.  I'm not religious (at all), but facts is facts.

My advice is to find a woman who enjoys being out in nature as opposed to someone who knows every episode of the latest hot sitcom, shops all the time, etc.  You may find her here... who knows, but it WONT be someone who's whole life is here, maybe someone playing with their sexuality for a while.  Make sure she has a "real" job and friends OUTSIDE of all this.... giving up "outside" to be ever more involved in the "adult" world is going the wrong way IMHO.

YOU on the other hand have been given a great gift in that you are connected to your inner self and your body is screaming at you.  It's quite beautiful... and the right woman will flip 4 U    :))  

Good luck

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poohdaddy1459 reads

I was just wondering how many gents would admit to having feelings for a provider. I was reading a previous post and after giving it some thought, I wonder how often this happens. I've been lobbying for on and off, in between gf's for almost 10 years. I don't think I've ever had those kinds of feelings for a provider and I've had some very good GFE's. There have been some that I've been friendly with but I personally don't like to cross that line. I have however been hit up for loans, favors etc. My question is this, how many gents would truly be ok with dating a provider? Would you truly ever accept her knowing what she has done? I'm not knocking the lady's here, I for one would never admit to a woman I'm dating that I've been pulling a Charlie Sheen every time I get the urge. It's just something I keep to myself.

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medic-alert710 reads

Is it an admission if I'm using an alias?  Yes fell hard!  I'd be ok dating a Provider and yes I'd be ok with what she'd done. Even after my dead cat bounce ...

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QueenBia851 reads

Maybe your harder, than steel?  Feelings are only natural.  Intelligence over emotion is what is key!

-- Modified on 10/29/2011 12:11:03 PM

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OneK1450 reads

That is totally natural. Here's my realization, which includes changing my personal life such that I can date in the 'real world" just lately (no details):

Biologically the males job is to make the females environment perfect and safe when mating... further he will fend off other males and make sure offspring is his and protected.  It's the beauty of nature... and sadly most have become disconnected from it.

Today "perfect environment" means fast cars, big homes, and bling... sadly what gets passed on to kids is the emotional state of the adult... including during sex, pregnancy, and of course development.  If you think about it this is quite a statement about certain types of entertainment including {violent} movies and certain types of porn.  I'm not religious (at all), but facts is facts.

My advice is to find a woman who enjoys being out in nature as opposed to someone who knows every episode of the latest hot sitcom, shops all the time, etc.  You may find her here... who knows, but it WONT be someone who's whole life is here, maybe someone playing with their sexuality for a while.  Make sure she has a "real" job and friends OUTSIDE of all this.... giving up "outside" to be ever more involved in the "adult" world is going the wrong way IMHO.

YOU on the other hand have been given a great gift in that you are connected to your inner self and your body is screaming at you.  It's quite beautiful... and the right woman will flip 4 U    :))  

Good luck

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vamyzf845 reads

and its a unique situation. i actually dated a k-girl provider that is reviewed on here regularly, these days she is up north in orange or san diego. knowing what i know now i smile thinking about it. ill tell you this, shes older than she says, and you would never know. like 10 years older. lol. totally different girl than the one you meet under business, and that was fun.  it was cool, but it was unique. cool because mostly from her upbringing she was very affectionate and submissive, treated me fantastic, to the point i had to ask her to stop at times. ever since the second time i had seen her, she didnt accept the donation, she actually covered the 2nd time (worked for a service) and then after that it was all personal. she showered me with gifts and expensive dinners which made me uncomfortable but she said it was her culture. it was weird how leisurely we discussed her "being busy with work" but i didnt really think much of it. on the flip side, i cant say it ever would have gotten real serious, and in the end of all things, her insecurity did it in. you have to see the irony of her worrying about me seeing other women. which now that i think about it, it wouldve been ironic either way. anyhow, it was a good time, but i dont know if i could do it again. nothing wrong with it, just a different situation.

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