The question is to what extent

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To the extent that you, after being with her on many occasions, find yourself thinking about her.
For example you awaken and your brain just sparks breif images of her just enough for your subconscience to remind you of her. You're flying off to work and while thinking of the thunder heads of the day you see her shining at you through a window of emerald eyes curtained by soft shiny hair.
In the heat of your daily occupational battle you're suddenly splashed by her little girl smile and her pretty little teeth.
To the extent of having her not only gradually measure up to but surpass (most of)your standards of expectation such that you find yourself learning and growing off her frequently
reminded how damn interesting she is; beautiful, intelligent, gushing with sexual energy yet extremely compassionate.
You click together like gears of persision speeding through time. She becomes a beacon at what could be the end of your long dark tunnel of loneliness. Or is she a freight train coming your way?

the answer to your question is mostly dependent upon her and what she feels/wants/needs.

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See post below Mi Amigo:
http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=25290&boardID=7&page=

Braingasm,

It is a fine line you walk in.  Like Mr. SD said, it is depends on how she feels about you and what she expects to get from this relationship.  Most providers do not let you in to theirs feelings or heart because to them the time you are together is nothing more than an act.  Don't get me wrong, some providers do go out with their clients and become a good friends but rarely I see that a provider fall for client.  Good luck to you.  You can PM me if you want to talk.

because she does this for a living. I've been where you are, trust me she sees other clients, she lives a life that you know nothing about, apart from what she may tell you. Do you really think you are going to "take her away", that she will quit providing and you two will live the american dream? Odds are not in your favor. Truth is many woman find it very hard to quit this life, be it the money or the freedom it is very hard for them to walk away. Would you be ok with her continuing to work? After all she needs to do something with her time, she needs her own money.

Also spending one or two hours of bliss is a far cry from living with someone 24/7.

What about you, turning your life upside down, would it be worth it? Is it worth the risk? My decision was no! My advise, simply enjoy the moment, then walk away. See her face in the clouds and enjoy the memory of your time with her.  

This hobby can be really weird sometimes.  How can you get to know a person in 1 to 2 hours?  Is it love or lust at first sight?  Most providers are very beautiful and personable, and I can see how it might happen.  I normally date a girl for a month before I go all the way with her (I'm not that easy!).  We are paying for safe hot but-naked sex and by-passing all the
trials and tribulations of dating.  

Being in love with a provider is one thing.  But if both fall in love, that could be trouble.

How do you know how long it takes ccybersurfer's erection to subside?

Duh duh DAH!  Thank you! :P