Scene Isle, you will find this board very informative if you choose to do the minimum due diligence before asking for "freebies". When one comes in asking for information and has zero history, no VIP, and/or using an alias then you will not find much tolerance.
Appreciate any info on Cenobia who is listed in Eros SD. All I need are approximate performance numbers . No description of appearance or performance necessary although welcome. Thanks.
Follow this link, but it won't do you any good unless you get the VIP membership.
http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=21512&boardID=7&page=
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Thanks for the info. #1)I did the usual escort search and came up empty just as Sequitur did when unbeknownst to me he asked the same question on 1-13-04. Never thought of searching the message board. #2)I'm not accustomed to petition for handouts especially from people of ugly disposition, and I'm sorry to l have bothered you. Does your moniker Gordo refer to trunkal Gordo or cephalic Gordo? Hope you have a better day tomorrow. Over and Out.
Clever reply, however "trunkal" is spelled "truncal".
Kudos to you kid. The misleading title was meant to increase the chance of you accepting my congratulations. You're absolutely right about the spelling (and also about my cleverness LOL). I was torn between the two spellings, but neither spell check or Web. Coll. Dict could resolve my indecision. Decided to take a chance since I didn't believe that anyone reading this post would be smart enough to know the difference. Wrong again!! You must be in medecine,anatomy,botany, or some other weird vocation.
Also nice to hear from a gentleman. In my estimation, a gentleman in response to a question, either answers the question in a civil manner or doesn't answer, but in any case does not attemmpt to elevate their own lowly status by trampling on another's words, ideas, or person.
Over and Out
Scene Isle, you will find this board very informative if you choose to do the minimum due diligence before asking for "freebies". When one comes in asking for information and has zero history, no VIP, and/or using an alias then you will not find much tolerance.
This exact scenario happens very frequently, and yet the ONE THING I haven't seen the original poster do is state what searches, etc. they HAVE done (already). This will at least eliminate the ensuing posts of one person saying to do the this and that, and then the author replying that he HAD done that already!
So, for those posting queries, please say what you HAVE DONE already, and what you came empty on.
While it may sound that they were being unpleasant to you, keep in mind what Gordo said in his second response. Since you posted this under an ALIAS (BIG no-no), and therefore no INFO about YOU, equate that with a perfect stranger knocking on your front door and wanting to come in. Likely? Not.
Also, note that Gordo responded with a response to give you understanding, yet maturely and gentlemanly turned the other cheek to your 'name calling', which we tend NOT to do here on these boards. If that can't be helped, and does happen, please do so under your NON-Alias name, as most people who engage in 'pistols at dawn' prefer to see their opponent.
Also, we want everyone to be VIP members, right folks!?
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My dear Sedona, I always respect your posts and agree with most of your opinions. As do many others, I consider you a shining light of information, understanding, and entertainment. However, I think some of the points you make in this post are flawed.
I agree entirely with the first part of the post and freely admit quilt to my failure to provide proper evidence that I did, in fact, try to solve the problem within the severe limitations imposed by ignorance and inexperience.
In the second part of your analysis you state that gordo's response may sound unpleasant. It not only sounded unpleasant, it was unpleasant, and in my opinion it was unwarranted. You state that I should keep in mind the content of his second response(which was also insulting). Of course, you know that was impossible when I first responded since he hadn't given his second response at that time. I think that your analogy of a complete stranger wanting to enter my home is a tortured stretch. I, as a complete stranger (most of us are complete strangers on this board) asked a simple question which was non-threatening, non-confrontational, non-intrusive, and in no way could cause hurt or damage to either the subject of the question or to the individual who CHOSE to answer the query. Remember I asked only for numbers and did not request details that might indict anybody. I even said, as a nice guy following his mother's advice, please and thank you.
I'm tempted to assail your positions detail by detail, but refrain since that would bore all of us. I don't mean this exposition to be an attack on anybody or defense of my actions since I am not at all threatened by the criticisms. I would like to use the explanation of my experience to lead to the central thesis of my response. Sedona, I know that you deal with clients outside the "working girl" relationship. Knowing this, I also know that you deal with complete strangers who sometimes bring to the relationship a profound ignorance and lack of understanding. I strongly suspect that you treat them with tolerance, respect, and consideration unless they prove unworthy of your graciousness. Over the years I have dealt with many people of high position, and uniformly have found them to be respectful of other people and willing to respond to a sincere, honest query in a kind and courteous manner.Usually it is the insignificant underlings who attempt to inflate their importance by finding fault with others. It might be a cultural or generational thing, but I find it repugnant when anyone gratuitously sets out to insult or demean other people. (Remember I was responding as gently as I could to a direct insult "that may sound unpleasant").
Enough already. I simply wish that the gentlepeople of this board would treat each other with respect, kindness, and consideration unless there is compelling evidence that the recipient of our attention is unworthy of civility. We would all profit from this approach
AKA OPINER on national board
I appreciate your stating your feelings about my post. It wasn't meant to do anything except provide benefit, and apparently, I failed.
It wasn't meant to insult, embarrass, or do anything except perhaps be a bridge, or provide something helpful. Also, since I've read so many of Gordo's posts, I personally didn't take it as harshly as you did, just because I felt I had a 'sense' of him as a poster. (In the past, the folks used to be really brutal!)
I think they are just trying to get people to understand that THIS is how it's done:
post in your username
state what you've done and had no success with
state your question
Become a VIP member
and that if it's not done that way, you will probably get some flack, and here's why, yada, yada.
Anyway, I'm sorry I disappointed you. Maybe I should stay off the boards until I'm off the meds..LOL..
For she's a lady 'n all that.
I can't imagine being disappointed in you or your thoughts. A disagreemment,a difference of opinion, and even conflict only bring into relief the admiration I have for you. As the valleys lend majesty to the mountain, and sour makes the sweet even sweeter, contrast brings clarity and enhances appreciation.
On a practical note;
Since this board is moderated and questions are sometimes indelicately or inappropriately posed (gv. my initial post), I think that it would be desireable to have a standardized INSTRUCTIVE response discriminatingly posted by the moderater. This might educate the uniformed poster and thus render superfluous other "instructive" posts. The initial poster might be offered the option of withdrawing the post. If the initial post remains, all board users retain the right to respond, and all rights of unfettered expression is retained (to a degree). I think that this would reduce the frequency and intensity of the flames, and inconvenience only the pyromaniacs. Of course, a few will retain a visceral, reptilian need to tear others down to a level that the spoiler can comprhend, but this can't be avoided.
While I also detest people asking about what providers offer on this board, I feel that he asked it in a rather appropiate way. He in no way asked for any type of specifics. He only asked for numbers. Theoretically(sorry if I spelled that wrong), if I had seen the provider in question, I would have been willing to post numbers under an alias. He would have no way of knowing my preferences.
I may be a guy that prefers AMP and thought that a HJ was great and given her a 9/9 based on some nice "handy" work. LOL.I just thought that his request did not deserve the response that he got(the "handout" thing). I do agree that he should have done the proper searches though. Most importantly, he should not have used an alia while making a request. That is just plain wrong. Maybe he is new and does not know better. I don't know.
Lastly, I equate his request more with an individual knocking on my door and asking how I would rate the interior of my house. Nothing more. Have a great day everybody.
Right on, my friend. Just posted a message saying the same thing in a convoluted way. If I had known you were going to post I would have saved my effort.
It seems that on a regular basis someone unknown comes in looking for either easily attainable information, or sometimes not so easily attainable info. The subject is discussed often on this board. The worst case scenario is by a person such as Scene Isle that has 0 reviews, 0 discussion board history (I checked), 0 VIP, and is using an alias asking for information before he's even put forth a minimal amount of effort on his own. This is like having a neighbor who you don't know that comes over and first asks to borrow your lawnmower and then asks if you don't mind mowing his lawn for him. Your neighbors are like this board-it's a two way street.
This is a completely different situation from a neighbor who you do know, that has helped you in the past, and needs a favor. No problem, most here will try to be as helpful as possible. I have received numerous PM's from established TER members, as have most of you I'm sure, asking for information. If it's legit, then I try to be as helpful as is prudent.
The questions that are asked that could be answered with either a TER membership or at least minimal effort shouldn't be asked on this board. That's called a handout.
Sedona hit the nail on the head. (Thanks, Sedona. BTW, welcome back. It is good to see you back here again!) Gordo was quite professional and courteous in his response to the original poster. Others around here would not have been so nice and would have told the initial poster to push off as they have done to others in the past.
So that there is no further misunderstanding, the general rule has been and continues to be that you simply do NOT ask for information about a provider using an alias, period. We don't know if you are friend or foe as there are a lot of "foes" out there. You need to understand just how protective people are here. They are not intentionally rude, but just are guarded as to outsiders. One improper leak to the wrong person and someone suffers because ot it. Therefore, we try not post such information here in the open. Most of us would be all to happy to make our recommendation(s) using PM directly to a VIP Member knowing it will be kept confidential.
Please, I am not trying to insult you, but only someone who does not know how this board works (i.e., a "newbie") or someone with possible malicious intent would ask such a question using an alias and actually expect to get information back on this board in the open. Any VIP Member would ask that the information be "PM'd" but only after doing a complete search for the information here in the first place. That is just the way it is done.
But since you asked and appear willing to take the risk(s), I think it is only fair to answer your initial post. I do not know the particular provider you are considering and therefore, I cannot comment on her. However, I am willing provide you with a few others you may want to consider:
http://www.geocities.com/tinabgoodsd/tina.html
http://profiles.yahoo.com/lusty_lauri
http://profiles.yahoo.com/serraspring
http://profiles.yahoo.com/tastytreat858
I think you may enjoy what they offer you.
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