Although I do post here very often Except when planning a trip to SD here are my thoughts ...I have a problem with someone taking me to a very nice  dinner date and charging him to watch me eat and then paying the bill so what I do is if someone wants a dinner date I cap it off at 2hrs this way if dinner and date runs into 3 hrs we can relax and not worry about the clock ticking away....now  on much longer dates we can always adjust to make sure it is fair for both parties....Victoria

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As long as you're screened and a good guy. Your time is what you make of it. Donations are considered for time only, reagrdless.
I think some girls may feel better with a 'routine'. But a larger number go with the flow. because 'girls just wanna have fun' too.
I say play hard!
OX,
Jai

Re: Question To The Many Wonderful Gals Who Post Here!

LOL!  Great topic & from a lovely friend who posted my 1st review here on TER!!

POKERGENT!!  I would say from a lady who loves to spoil her regulars & really enjoys her friends dearly, that I give DISCOUNTS 2 my REGULARS!  Meaning, that if we already have chemistry and mutually enjoy each other's company obviously my gift is not going to be the same for MR.JOE BLOW who I don't already know personally.

I just returned from DESIRE in Los Cabos with my ATF for the last 4 days, and it's a clothing optional/swinger private resort!!! XoXo

No tan lines!  I hope my comments help!  Miss U, POKERGENT & will be in your HOT area this week!

Well, it took me several reads to understand what you were asking  The way it was typed 'Facial (Non Sexual) Show'...really threw me  a facial non sexual SHOW?  wow, i'm really out of the loop  then i finally realized there was simply a comma missing...i think..

OK, so i am with you on the GFE thing hard to achieve in an hour...but at the same time, as someone who has other freelance work which pays more than escort work, in addition to the consideration of what my hourly rates are for escort....then for someone to ask for a "different (read: lower) rate" for a spa day (which is what i think you are mentioning) or for dinner, drinks, fun night out, etc....to ask if that should be at a different rate...i say it all depends on the situation, on the feeling between the guy and the girl, etc...but ultimately NO, it should be at her requested donation, period.

For me, to pass up better paying freelance work or my escort rates for just "chllin" is not an easy call  I guess if I was a guy, I would assume a hot escort has more business and income than she can handle and she should be cool with just hanging out once in a while and should welcome it!  But in my experience, the most exclusive escorts are selective and don't see a ton of people and they cannot count on a daily "volume" level by choice -- so the catch 22 is, if she's hot, classy and sees few people, she's LESS likely to be able to take a spa vacation at a "reduced" donation...just to have fun....because when she does see someone, it needs to be at her donation level or it doesn't make sense for her.

I know the best of the best in major cities personally...Los Angeles, New York, San Francisco --- and they don't see a lot of people and taking a week out of a month just to "chill" has to make economic sense for them, no matter how much they like a guy...and ultimately, all of us ladies are all able to buy our own vacations, massages, (non sexual) facials, dinners, etc...REGARDLESS of whether we are $100 a hour or $1000 an hour...and i think somehow that is forgotten...we can give this to ourselves without spendng GFE time with a man...so.....we're back to quid pro quo

No matter how you dice it, this hobby exists for a reason and the perameters are timeless, again because they make sense for both involved.  Ultimately, there is a donation level and service quality for everyone....so really no one gets left out  It's only when men or women want something for more or less at the expense of someone else, when things get tricky

xo
Clarke

My Feelings...

Well, here's my opinion for what it's worth.

I agree with Jai.  Time is time.  You are paying  for time and companionship, not for anything else.

Being a TS I've had gents who just wanted to meet me or my GF and I and talk with a TS for the first time.  I've had other great dates where we spent the day at the Zoo, and many of what we call our "dinner and a date" full evening dates.

I really prefer those. We clear our whole evening.  Usually a nice dinner, maybe a club or show, then desert at our place or a hotel.  A "real" date.  And it makes it a really great time for everyone.  And we try to keep it afordable.

While it's quite likely a gent looking for a GF for a trip can get lots of girls to go for free.

But when a professional escort accompanies somone on a trip they are passing up other opportunities and generally expect to be compensated.  If a pro wants to take a vacation, she can generally afford to go wherever she wants, when she wants, and not have to "work" when she's there.

But there's always someoen for everyone and every situation.  And 49 grand a week sounds like nice work if you can get it.  I haven't, yet...

Giggle,
TS Jamie

Hi Pokergent..Good question.

As for me, I have a "Social Events" donation on my website that applies to your question regarding other activities (dinner, dancing, drinks, etc). Check it out on the provided link.

I think longer dates that include some outside activity are the best sometimes!! I've had some great times at the Del Mar Races, Jake's in Del Mar, shopping, etc ...then onto the more 1-1 private time.

Good question! Hope you find what you seek!



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