I am trying to move from rub/tug sessions to GFE/escort. I have reviewed a lot of massages here but my delimma is that when asked for references the ladies want references from their peers not the massage ladies I have seen. I am 53yo white guy, I don’t have social media, LinkedIn and don’t want to send photo of drivers license with info covered up. I can’t get past that. Am I just destined for what I’m doing
Looking for the first one, so I can say I now have a reference Advice pleaseHi.
I just read your post. I think that I might have a solution.
When I was new to the hobby, I did what you did. I posted here on TER.
Within a couple of days, I received quite a few responses from really nice ladies who wanted to help out.
So, just be patient. Hopefully the responses will be coming soon.
If not, I'll try to refer some ladies to you.
My screening does not need references from providers I don't know personally. I do not use Linkedin, and I only ask for a DL if I absolutely need verification because of safety issues. I utilize the Worldwide web to screen & I am not talking social media sites. I do not use TER, or P411 as verification. My main concern is my safety, as a single Mom I need to know I returning home happy & not hurt. I whitelist gents that are safe & respectful after 1 date because I want other providers to know when a man is good. Sharing is caring.
You can get past it but will take time and it is NOT without risks. Keep in mind, anyone that is willing to see you without a pretty good verification may well be someone that has other plans. But many here will strongly recommend never disclosing your personal information.
While you look to find providers willing to work on alternative ways to vet you as a safe client you need to work on how to vet them as safe providers. One very good tool is the reviews here. Make sure that any provider you start out with is well reviewed. Reach out to the reviewer and ask about her -- and perhaps check to see which are see her one time or which are repeats. Repeats are nearly always a good sign.
P411 will also list members that are "newbie" friendly so those are a good starting point.
I'm not really understanding why a Gfe Provider would not accept your
"Massage Referrals"? Perhaps I misunderstood your post.
I'll happily be a referral for another Provider for you to visit once you visit
with me for a Gfe Date or I'm a Licensed Massage Therapist, so a Massage
Date would be lovely too!
Please note my Reviews & TER Profile.
Have a Sexy Day!